Where exactly is the proper time and place to discuss such things?
What are we supposed to do, become lemmings and have everyone post something like "Oh, how terrible, I will pray for the family". In reality what good does posting something like that achieve other than making us momentarily feel better about the situation?
I think what would be insensitive is for people to not ask questions, it would be wrong for people to not want to make sure all safety protocols were adhered to. It would also serve a greater good to find out the exact truth so the same thing does not happen to anyone else in the future. Accidents can and obviously do happen, but that doesn't mean questions shouldn't be asked. The real tragedy would be for everyone to just say "Oh how terrible, what a tragedy" and then drop it...
I completely agree with you. This was real tragedy and I think it is more than proper for people to question why it happened. I not only think it is proper to discuss why this might have happened, I agree that it would a tragedy not to. After all it is from learning the facts and addressing the problems that can help avoid another accident. If Disney is allowed to sweep this under the rug to aviod bad press, they are leaving the door open for future accidents.