Welcome, to the show, Baby
I get that a lot. Both here and in my last lives...
It’s a lot about “tone”. There really is no tone on chatboards...or text messages. So the reader tends to “assign one” and is often wrong. The truth of non-malice bares out over time.
I agree with people a lot more than they realize...here as well. Mr. Penguin and I vehemently disagreed on one single premise (for me - about 4,000 posts worth

)...but it turns out I don’t disagree with him much at all otherwise. It was difference of perspective on one thing.
I tend to be like a 4th line nhl player. Everyone hates the sandpaper guy at first...but then you realize there’a value in the contribution.
I’ve never ignored anyone...how do we learn if we do that?
See...I told you you’d come around? It worked already