I wear color now.  I wear black pants, but I generally have a brightly colored top.  I was severely insecure back in high school.  I WISH I looked like I did back then.  Part of it is that I was the first in my class to develop, and I tried to hide it with baggy clothing, which just ended up making me look chubby.  I was bigger than the other girls, but it was because I actually had hips and such.  But I was very conservative and convinced that nice girls don't have...curves.  When I played Daisy Mae in our school's production of Lil Abner, I had to wear an off the shoulder top and I was horrified because I felt it accentuated my bust, which was rather large in proportion to the rest of my body, and I felt self conscious and embarrassed. So I wore a lot of shapeless clothing and bland colors.  Now I LOVE color.  My wardrobe is kind of a rainbow now. I'm still a bit self-conscious about my size and about the size of my bust, but I don't try to hide it with the mousy clothing. I try to wear things that draw the eyes somewhere else and bring out my better features instead.