I know what you mean, it seems as if a lot of the marketing for adult travel includes spas, casinos, and bars. I am not a huge fan of those, except maybe the bars. But with the bars, I don't want it loud or like a club atmosphere, just a nice place to relax, talk, and enjoy a drink or two. The spas at vacation destinations are always super expensive compared to getting a massage in my hometown, and I don't do that frequently (only 3 times in my life). Maybe that is why I still need to travel to Disney places, I'm just not adult enough for other places!