As relative WDW newbies all my wife and I have ever know is SSE with the wand. When I first heard that it was going to be removed I was very upset and I just knew I would never be one of those "wand haters". Now having been twice since the wand has been removed I must say that I honestly don't miss it one bit and actually I now understand why the "wand haters" felt the way they did about it. There's just something so simplistically gorgeous about SSE without the wand. It seems like most of the folks who miss the wand are like us and first started going to WDW after the wand was erected so for them the wand is a symbol of the magic and wonder that they felt when they first started going. I felt the same way about the castle decorations as well and I just knew the castle wouldn't be as "magical" without them...but I was pleasantly surprised at how much more beautiful the castle is without all of the garrish decorations.
I think the wand, much like the castle decorations, was neat for awhile and served it's purpose but ultimately it's the intrinsic beauty of the structures themselves that keeps taking our breath away, not the decorations we cover them with.