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All Disney All The Time

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That is pretty much how my fiancee and I roll, too. While folks like us are able to get away with such things, not everyone is as lucky.
If the little Foo-Foos have to have their entire bedrooms with them, then stay at home and let them play in their bedrooms. If the little Foo-Foos have to have the entire contents of their refrigerators with them, then stay at home and let them graze in their refrigerators.
We've got 3 kids and never once pushed a stroller or hauled a freaking backpack.
 

DfromATX

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This happened to me on Saturday...
You spend an hour looking for your kids stroller as CMs moved it two or 3 times and eventually find it in a completely different stroller parking area. In fairness we bring the stroller for when the kids get tired. I park it for hours and go back at the end of the day or until one or both start complaining.

We're done with strollers now, but used one on our first trip. One of the best tips I ever received was to tie something to the stroller to make it easy to find. We used a bright pink bandana. It made it so easy to spot after the ride!
 

Spikerdink

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If the little Foo-Foos have to have their entire bedrooms with them, then stay at home and let them play in their bedrooms. If the little Foo-Foos have to have the entire contents of their refrigerators with them, then stay at home and let them graze in their refrigerators.
We've got 3 kids and never once pushed a stroller or hauled a freaking backpack.

Who peed on your Cheerios?
 

RedDad

Smitty Werben JagerManJensen
If the little Foo-Foos have to have their entire bedrooms with them, then stay at home and let them play in their bedrooms. If the little Foo-Foos have to have the entire contents of their refrigerators with them, then stay at home and let them graze in their refrigerators.
We've got 3 kids and never once pushed a stroller or hauled a freaking backpack.
Good for you. :rolleyes: Some of us enjoy having our little ones in the parks, and no, we will not keep them at home just because some folks think their way is the only way to do WDW. I agree there are definitely those who go over the top with "stuff" (and don't get me started on the 12 year olds in strollers), but a huge percentage of the attractions in these parks are geared toward little children, and you can't do WDW with little ones without a certain amount of stuff.
 

All Disney All The Time

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Good for you. :rolleyes: Some of us enjoy having our little ones in the parks, and no, we will not keep them at home just because some folks think their way is the only way to do WDW. I agree there are definitely those who go over the top with "stuff" (and don't get me started on the 12 year olds in strollers), but a huge percentage of the attractions in these parks are geared toward little children, and you can't do WDW with little ones without a certain amount of stuff.
Our kids didn't go near WDW until they were 5. At one point they were 8, 7 and 5. The 2 older ones obviously had been going with us for a few years until No. 3 turned 5. Never a stroller, never a backpack. Never a leash or harness either. They knew we were serious when we told them that if they wandered off that when we found them their day at the parks was OVER.
We were the PARENTS, not their pack mules. We were the PARENTS, not their servants.
At dinner one nite, the oldest (he was about 12 at the time) told us, "You don't know how hard it is to be raised in the 90s by parents who think that it's the 50s". We took it as a compliment. Now all 3 of them have their 4 year college degrees, have good jobs, have no drug or alcohol issues and don't have any criminal records or "Baby Mamas". As far as I'm concerned, it all worked out dayum well.
 

Figgy1

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Our kids didn't go near WDW until they were 5. At one point they were 8, 7 and 5. The 2 older ones obviously had been going with us for a few years until No. 3 turned 5. Never a stroller, never a backpack. Never a leash or harness either. They knew we were serious when we told them that if they wandered off that when we found them their day at the parks was OVER.
We were the PARENTS, not their pack mules. We were the PARENTS, not their servants.
At dinner one nite, the oldest (he was about 12 at the time) told us, "You don't know how hard it is to be raised in the 90s by parents who think that it's the 50s". We took it as a compliment. Now all 3 of them have their 4 year college degrees, have good jobs, have no drug or alcohol issues and don't have any criminal records or "Baby Mamas". As far as I'm concerned, it all worked out dayum well.
Can I hear a big AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

Vader2112

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We're done with strollers now, but used one on our first trip. One of the best tips I ever received was to tie something to the stroller to make it easy to find. We used a bright pink bandana. It made it so easy to spot after the ride!
We did have something easily identified on the stroller. It does not help much is they moved it from one side of Tomorrowland to another not in line of site.
I was starting to think people played a joke on me.
 

All Disney All The Time

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Can I hear a big AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thanks Figgy. Parents need to PARENT, not worry about, "But they won't love me if I don't kiss their little butts 24/7". A PARENT'S job is to see that the kids grow up to be useful, productive, self-sufficient members of society. The world isn't going to constantly recognize that "your" kid is "gifted, talented, and OH SO SPECIAL". So what happens when "you" aren't around anymore? "You" now have a so-called adult who can't find their way out of a phone booth (if you can find one these days). Make kids accountable, make them responsible, be involved without acting like you are a member of their peer group. You're not, you never will be and you are not doing them a favor.
 

RedDad

Smitty Werben JagerManJensen
Our kids didn't go near WDW until they were 5. At one point they were 8, 7 and 5. The 2 older ones obviously had been going with us for a few years until No. 3 turned 5. Never a stroller, never a backpack. Never a leash or harness either. They knew we were serious when we told them that if they wandered off that when we found them their day at the parks was OVER.
We were the PARENTS, not their pack mules. We were the PARENTS, not their servants.
At dinner one nite, the oldest (he was about 12 at the time) told us, "You don't know how hard it is to be raised in the 90s by parents who think that it's the 50s". We took it as a compliment. Now all 3 of them have their 4 year college degrees, have good jobs, have no drug or alcohol issues and don't have any criminal records or "Baby Mamas". As far as I'm concerned, it all worked out dayum well.
So, pushing a stroller with a diaper bag on it makes me a pack mule? Look, I totally agree that many parents these days coddle their kids (you see a lot of that at WDW). But suggesting that we should just avoid the parks (at a place designed for families with children) or leave half the family at home because it requires we bring more stuff with us is just silly. Sounds like it worked great for you. Doesn't mean its the only or best way. My oldest daughter didn't go until she was 9, and we seriously regretted not taking her sooner. Our youngest is 3, and will be going on her 4th trip in June. I wouldn't trade the memories from those trips for all the money in the world. I get that people who go with older or no kids get frustrated at all the strollers, so I apologize if my family's vacation inhibited your enjoyment in any way.

In all seriousness, congrats on successfully raising some great kids. It sounds like we would agree a great deal on how to raise a family, if not so much on when to take them to the happiest place. Hopefully, mine won't be too much of a disappointment to society after so many damaging trips to WDW.;)
 

Figgy1

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Thanks Figgy. Parents need to PARENT, not worry about, "But they won't love me if I don't kiss their little butts 24/7". A PARENT'S job is to see that the kids grow up to be useful, productive, self-sufficient members of society. The world isn't going to constantly recognize that "your" kid is "gifted, talented, and OH SO SPECIAL". So what happens when "you" aren't around anymore? "You" now have a so-called adult who can't find their way out of a phone booth (if you can find one these days). Make kids accountable, make them responsible, be involved without acting like you are a member of their peer group. You're not, you never will be and you are not doing them a favor.
My kids want spending money they do chores and shovel all the snow! I live in a no brat zone! They come home with a C it's off to the books til the grads come up! Thank God never saw a C yet!
 

meyeet

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Thanks Figgy. Parents need to PARENT, not worry about, "But they won't love me if I don't kiss their little butts 24/7". A PARENT'S job is to see that the kids grow up to be useful, productive, self-sufficient members of society. The world isn't going to constantly recognize that "your" kid is "gifted, talented, and OH SO SPECIAL". So what happens when "you" aren't around anymore? "You" now have a so-called adult who can't find their way out of a phone booth (if you can find one these days). Make kids accountable, make them responsible, be involved without acting like you are a member of their peer group. You're not, you never will be and you are not doing them a favor.
I agree with everything you stated here. But how does this relate to carrying a bag into MK? Because I don't want to spend a fortune on food and souvenirs and I choose to bring my kids with me from age 10 months on, does that mean I'm not being a PARENT??
 

All Disney All The Time

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So, pushing a stroller with a diaper bag on it makes me a pack mule? Look, I totally agree that many parents these days coddle their kids (you see a lot of that at WDW). But suggesting that we should just avoid the parks (at a place designed for families with children) or leave half the family at home because it requires we bring more stuff with us is just silly. Sounds like it worked great for you. Doesn't mean its the only or best way. My oldest daughter didn't go until she was 9, and we seriously regretted not taking her sooner. Our youngest is 3, and will be going on her 4th trip in June. I wouldn't trade the memories from those trips for all the money in the world. I get that people who go with older or no kids get frustrated at all the strollers, so I apologize if my family's vacation inhibited your enjoyment in any way.

In all seriousness, congrats on successfully raising some great kids. It sounds like we would agree a great deal on how to raise a family, if not so much on when to take them to the happiest place. Hopefully, mine won't be too much of a disappointment to society after so many damaging trips to WDW.;)
Your stroller, etc. wouldn't cause me a bit of trouble, unless you asked me to push it for you. When your youngest is 20 do you think that she will have accurate memories of these early trips? Or will her memories be what she has been told took place? The one who didn't go until she was 9 would have been going for 4 years by that time in our household. We considered our kids to still be "little" at age 5, 7 and 8. But without dealing with strollers and diaper bags. There was not a chance in the world that we were going to be changing diapers at WDW parks. Vacations with diapers consisted of things like renting a beach house on Isle of Palms for a couple of weeks.

You don't "damage" your kids by taking them to WDW (unless you act like a screaming idiot while you're there). You do damage by not preparing them for entry into the real world, which is NOT going to recognize their "total and complete perfection and infallability".
 

DfromATX

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I agree with everything you stated here. But how does this relate to carrying a bag into MK? Because I don't want to spend a fortune on food and souvenirs and I choose to bring my kids with me from age 10 months on, does that mean I'm not being a PARENT??

My 2 cents (for what it's worth) ... I agree with all that has been said, but I was kinda thinking the same as you. This thread turned into a parenting thread, didn't it? We are a family of 6 and we like to bring a small backpack, which usually holds the camera and some snacks, etc, but not much else. I sure hope none of my kids end up in jail one day! I would kick their lil hineys! ;) Bringing a backpack or stroller to WDW does NOT mean the kiddos are going to turn out bad or lazy. Gee whiz! LOL
 

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