Just read the above, and you certainly had to cope with a lot the past few years. No wonder you may have gained a few pounds--it's more than understandable. People do what they have to do, to cope with high stress situations like that. Anyway, I'm so glad that you and your hubs could finally get away, relax, and enjoy each other and the vacation. Now that you're home, just take things a day at a time, and everything will eventually get better.
Thanks for your kind words, @MinnieM123!


(I'm teasing, of course!)
I'll give you one for creativity though. 
) and they also have great desserts. I bypassed all of that and stuck with the fish dinner and a glass of wine. I figure the wine is around 130 calories that I didn't need; yet, the "alternatives" of what I really wanted, would have been far worse. So, does my choice still put me in dieter's prison, or have I been granted a stay of execution for last night's dinner?