HouCuseChickie
Well-Known Member
Yeah and I honestly tried to sound like I wasn't a scold, I was trying to get someone to look it up--either my brother or her. Maybe I should not have said anything, but we know now there is no known amount of alcohol that is safe to drink during pregnancy. My brother is an absolute stoner, too. I do worry about my niece's future with the both of them as her parents. I am hoping they see that having a kid means recognizing something larger than themselves. I mean, they seem like loving parents. My brother is always sending me photos and videos and they seem happy.
This Gf seems much nicer than the last one. She was a professional dominatrix and she sounded abusive. Not everyone likes it when you bring your work home.
It's interesting because it reminds me of a girl I knew back in my symphony days. She was dealing with a major case of nerves and anxiety later on in her pregnancy. There was nothing safe that the dr could prescribe that was effective, so her physician allowed her 1 beer or glass of white wine a few times a week during her third trimester. The difference, aside from being physician approved, is that she got out ahead of it and told everyone exactly what was going on...even going as far as confessing to the potential risks and guilt she felt.
I can understand why you'd worry. It reminds me a bit of my BIL. He and his wife are total stoners and he also drinks heavily. We all worried when we found out my SIL was expecting. I guess at least this GF is not a dom. I would have any number of concerns with that one.