Okay, so I feel like I've found the answer! My friend merely showed me this video, and it just hit me!
http://video.google.com/videoplay?d...225&start=0&num=10&so=0&type=search&plindex=1
Everything seemed to be answered! It reminded me what it was like to be a kid, and the fact that I can sing along with lots of other people makes the experience...even more amazing, I guess?
So I guess it's basically everything all of you have been saying.
I personally feel like the most important thing about Walt Disney World is that it reminds people how to have fun and to be a kid again. I know it sounds trite, but there's a difference between reading the statement and actually feeling and internalizing it! A trip to Disney is like a pilgrimage to our childhood, when we decide to leave the real world at the gate (although I think the real world is important too, of course). And I've met a lot of people who I think could use a trip down there and loosen up. Seriously, nobody there cares if you're 40 and wearing a Goofy hat!
And there's just something special about seeing people act differently than you've seen them before, and going crazy and people going crazy with them for the same reasons and nobody even cares! It's kind of like that cathartic ritual they do out in some desert in California...I forget what it's called...
I think this human need and collective memory is what defines and unites the Disney junkie community at its most basic level. I think it's important to become a "kid" (with good sense and manners) every now and then, but I can't explain why; like many of you stated, maybe it's just unexplainable.
The attention to detail, size, variety of activities, Cast Members, history, round out everything else. We never get bored with the place because it's constantly changing: there are new attractions, new things to discover or try or notice, new people to experience them with, new ways of looking at the World. No experience is ever the same.
Guests are generally treated hospitably and pleasantly (theoretically), which is just a positive experience and adds to the atmosphere (even creates it in a lot of cases). The Cast Members are people you can share that special feeling with, bring the place to life, and if you live in an environment in which most people are not like CMs, this could be a pleasant surprise or break.
The history kind of touches on the whole philosophy behind the experience and, I don't know...just makes it more enriching? It's just interesting to learn about these people who thought this up and designed everything and put so much effort and love into this baby!
Thank you so much for all your responses! I guess this thread kind of bled with my uncertainty about the future and career, but it definitely just helped me to understand myself better. Feel free to add even more comments...my ears are always open!
And here's a video I just think everyone should watch:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=i3WWf7cbzsc
The sunscreen one?