I have great neighbors. Tonight it was my turn. My doorbell was ringing over and over and my cameras had already told me someone was there, I pulled on sweats ( I don't sleep in much) and gun in hand I opened the door. It was my friend from 2 doors down. She told me I think Jim is dead. I I didn't know what to do, but I knew you would. She was in her nightgown and it was about 25F out. I invited her in and said stay here. I think she is 90 and Jim maybe 92?. I ran down to their house. Jim was indeed dead and had been for a while. No pulse, no breath and he was ice cold. I called my next door neighbor who is a Nashville fire Capt. Thank God he was off shift. He and he wife went to my house to look after June. I called 911 and waited. What a crap night. But she came to me for help. That meant something. And no I couldn't do anything. The fact she thought I could really meant something. If I remember correctly he had stage 4 colon cancer. If I make it to 92 I am good with that. I did really love Jim and in his younger days (80's) we watched a lot of football together.
I just realized that I posted this here. I meant to post in our chat in the PML. I follow a lot more than I post here. Hi, I am Jay. I post a lot in the PML, so a few of you may be confussed. My wife has had a lot of health issues over the last few years. I lost her last month. Her mother who has dementia has lived with us. I decided to continue to take care of her mother as long as I can. She was the first member of "my flock". Now I have one more. No offense to anyone here or in chit chat. I just am a bit of a private person, but I guess not so much anymore. Nice to meet you all.Update and not sure if this is good or bad. When I got back to my house After they had taken Jim, There was a woman and a man about my age with June and Chris and Missy. I am thinking the woman who did all the talking was her daughter. Maybe daughter in law???? I asked her what the plans were and they said we should take June home. I asked if they were going to stay with her and they said, she does good and she has you if she needs it. Call us if she needs something. Excuse me??? They left. Chris and Missy took June home. Chris came back to talk to me. Missy stayed the night with her. Chris told me he had her call her kids when I was dealing with EMS. He has no Idea who was a son or daughter. They never gave their names and he has no numbers. I sat on the porch and had a cig and he lit a cigar. I told him I think my flock just doubled,. He told me yep. If it is a problem we got you ,but I have no doubt you got it.











Gotta say, your lives have never been stagnant; and here is yet another new chapter for you, Mike, and T, plus Daisy and 2 kittens!






