Today is Matthew’s 33rd birthday…!!!!!!!



For those that do not know, Matthew is our middle child (between oldest daughter Megan and youngest daughter Sarah).
He was born via c-section, 3 months early and in utero growth retarded, due to an umbilical issue. His birth weight was 1 lb. 4 oz., and he went to as low as 1 lb. 2 oz. near the beginning of his 4.5-month NICU stay. He also developed premature retinopathy while in the NICU and had to have an eye operation to save as much of his vision as they could, which extended his stay.
Shortly after we brought him home, he developed an RSV infection and ended up back in the NICU for 12 more days, before we finally brought him home to stay.
After we were finally able to bring him home, he was on a heart/apnea monitor for the next year, during the night. We also had oxygen on hand. The monitor had to be taken in once a month to be recalibrated as he grew, because his heart rate and breathing slowed, as is normal. We didn’t get much sleep towards the approach of each recalibration period because of the alarm sounding so often during the night. Sure, we could have simply shut the alarm off, but we knew we could never live with ourselves if that was the one time something went terribly wrong. I/we could write a book about his life, especially the first several years…what a ride, but beyond worth it.
He is on the autism spectrum and is legally blind. Although his glasses lenses are very thick, the legally blind aspect mostly has to do with his peripheral vision, due to the premature retinopathy. He sees more than well enough to not need a cane, or such.
He worked at a local Salvation Army store for 3 years, and has now been at a local Goodwill store for 5 years, for which he recently received a certificate and a pin, and was also chosen Employee of the Month…again…also coming with another pin.
He’s caring, empathetic, funny, silly, thoughtful………..
There aren’t enough words to show how proud we are of him…!!!!!
Below are 2 pics of him in the NICU on the day he was born (notice the Bic pen in the 2nd pic for size reference), and 2 pics with him from our WDW family trip last summer…!!!
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