So, yesterday my DWifey’s (Carolyn) mother’s side of our family had our annual Thanksgiving/family reunion, like they do every year on the Sunday before Thanksgiving. The number of people in the family, from the matriarch and patriarch (Carolyn’s grandparents) is 232. Sadly, 25 have passed over the years, so that brings it down to 207.
But, 3 younger family members are also now engaged, and 3 others are expecting children soon.
Also, unfortunately, and very sadly, Carolyn’s mother (Shirley) passed in her room in our home on the morning of Friday, August 2nd, from lung cancer. She had already been living with us for almost 2 years, and I spent the last 5 months of her life here at home with her as her full time primary caregiver.
Fortunately hospice was covered by her military benefits, and Carolyn, our special needs son, and 2 daughters all also contributed immensely to her care, and her great granddaughters were always lifting her spirits.
We did not want her to spend her final days in a facility, as she greatly feared those places.
I always feared I’d be the only one home when she passed. As it was, DS had the day off, but was napping when she passed. I checked on her before I went to the bathroom about 10a. When I came out a few minutes later, I checked on her again and she was gone. We had thought she would live into the weekend, at least.
As y’all can imagine, that was not a fun phone call to Carolyn, and special needs son did not take it well at all, either.
We finally buried Shirley’s cremated remains next to her parents, and other relatives, on Nov. 8th in her hometown, here in Central Texas. Carolyn and her mother were very close, so it’s all been very emotional, of course.
Sorry if I rambled, but I thought it might be helpful to provide a little recent background.
Carolyn, among others, is hugely involved in making sure these celebrations go off smoothly every year.
According to the guest book, a little over 150 family members showed up, including the plethora of little kids running all over the place…!!!!!
More than in recent years, due to things like Covid, inclement weather, scheduling issues, etc.
We got there early to set up, and then I and one of Carolyn’s cousins husbands sat on a church pew on a side wall while all the others broke it down and cleaned up.
We talked about how uplifted we were by the turnout, and how so many of the younger family members vowed to keep it all going, especially his son John, who now has 6 young children…!!!!!
Anyway, I continue rambling…!!!!!
Some pics from the day…!!!
Our youngest granddaughter (Audrey) found a new friend in one of her 3rd cousins…!!!!!
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The plates, utensils, bread, butter, corn on the cob, pickles, olives, etc. table, the mains in the kitchen, and the dessert table…!!!!!
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My plate…and I don’t think I can even name everything that was on it…!!!!!
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A wide shot of the hall with the memory pictures table in the foreground…
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Vegan pumpkin spice cream sandwich cookies made from scratch by our oldest DD (Megan)…these were REALLY good…!!!!!
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The family trivia session, which was both hilarious and informative…!!!!!
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And, finally, the lighted glass angel table in memory of those family members that have passed…
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Again, sorry for rambling, but I thought some might appreciate the tradition involved.
Thanks for indulging me…I hope…!!!