MinnieM123
Premium Member
I hope you maintain a positive attitude toward healing, as sometimes things take a while. Yet, even little steps lead to bigger steps -- and what's important -- that you're still moving forward. Sounds like you've made some progress, I believe you're headed in the right direction.Due to my spine problem I didn't play for almost a year, but even without that my game was getting worse as I aged. I still had moments of playing well, but they were few and far between. More recently, I have been given the green light to go back out and have about 4 or 5 times now. And I only played a few holes. Yesterday I got up to 8 holes in without more than minor fatigue, but I am back to the quality that I started with back 45 years ago which can only be described as pathetic. But things do seem to be improving. I still have a bit of an equilibrium problem which isn't helping but that seems to be getting better a little as well.
It's frustrating but my Doctors keep telling me to be patient and it will get better. I tell them that they need to understand that I will be 75 years old in a couple of months. I don't have all that much future to patiently wait. But, it is just one other example of how little control we have of somethings. It is very easy to start getting very heavy into self pity about it sometimes. I have a lot of friends and relatives that didn't even make it to my age, much less able to go out and play golf no matter how poorly. I try to keep that in mind and be grateful for my situation. When I go to the VA Hospital in Durham for checkups or procedures and I see so many veterans my age that are legless, blind, confined to wheelchairs or are close to zombie status, it does awaken me to how lucky I am. Then at least I lose the self pity for awhile until I find myself unable to do things that seemed easy just a few years ago.
Sorry, I way over answered your question, but I sometimes use this place to vent a little.![]()