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To me that isn't right. But my DH is saying that they do that to protect the witnesses. :shrug:
PotteryGal
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That's what I was wondering....:shrug:
cdunbar
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Yeah but when you're giving it to the parent of the victim...:veryconfu
cdunbar
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Why do you not like the future fiance/boyfriend
Nicole220
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Nope.
They met over the summer. They knew each other 3 days then he left for Iraq. He came home for two weeks, got here Saturday. They've been talking via AIM and webcam this whole time. I don't like him for various reasons...he knows all of those reasons. But he's trying hard to make a good impression. We'll see how the next two weeks go.
But she's 19! And I'm afraid of losing her. But I'm getting everything ready for tonight...putting on a good face for her making sure everything is perfect just incase this is the one time she'll be proposed to.
cdunbar
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Yeah I'm 23 and not ready to get married, I can't very well say that a 19 yo is. But then again, different things are right or different people:shrug:. But you know when my best friend got engaged when we were 18, I felt the same way you did. The guy was a scumball, he was a coke head, would go around threatning us, telling us that as soon as we graduated that he was gonna take her away and we'd never see her again. So I told her she everything he said! She told me that I was just jealous, but after we set down and I reminded her about how long we'd been friends and the fact that I'd stood beside her when her mom died, etc, etc. and eventually she realized the guy was bad for her...:shrug: So if she comes to u and says what do you think, be honest with her, share your feelings and apprehensions and if she is your real friend a friend that doesn't want to loose you she'll say I understand your apprehensions and I will take a good hard look at what you've said, but you can't just go into her room Nic and go ya know what I really don't like him because and give your laundry list all that will do is anger her. Wait for her to come to you, and if she doesn't then unfortunately you're just gonna have to let her make her own mistakes which when someone you're close does that it's gut wrenching but unfortunately at ya'lls age you just have to learn that watching your friends and yourself making mistakes which might affect your life is just one of those things...
Nicole220
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I've already been honest with her and told her how I felt about him, but she doesnt' know how I feel about this marriage issue. I won't approach her, but like you said, if she comes to me I'll be honest. I'm hoping she will be like your friend and realize her mistake. She's a smart girl...she should be able to come to her senses. Siiiiiigh. Well, he's almost here so I gotta go. Bye Christa! Thanks for listening...Yeah I'm 23 and not ready to get married, I can't very well say that a 19 yo is. But then again, different things are right or different people:shrug:. But you know when my best friend got engaged when we were 18, I felt the same way you did. The guy was a scumball, he was a coke head, would go around threatning us, telling us that as soon as we graduated that he was gonna take her away and we'd never see her again. So I told her she everything he said! She told me that I was just jealous, but after we set down and I reminded her about how long we'd been friends and the fact that I'd stood beside her when her mom died, etc, etc. and eventually she realized the guy was bad for her...:shrug: So if she comes to u and says what do you think, be honest with her, share your feelings and apprehensions and if she is your real friend a friend that doesn't want to loose you she'll say I understand your apprehensions and I will take a good hard look at what you've said, but you can't just go into her room Nic and go ya know what I really don't like him because and give your laundry list all that will do is anger her. Wait for her to come to you, and if she doesn't then unfortunately you're just gonna have to let her make her own mistakes which when someone you're close does that it's gut wrenching but unfortunately at ya'lls age you just have to learn that watching your friends and yourself making mistakes which might affect your life is just one of those things...
:kiss:
mpoppins76
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Ugh. Feeling uber icky today. Just in time for DH to leave for Boston for 2 days :brick::hurl:
PotteryGal
Active Member
I'm sorry.
It's not fun when mama gets sick..I hope it's over quickly for you. I'm home with Joel today, he's still dealing with his stuff.
PotteryGal
Active Member
Morning Susan! Thanks - poor baby, I just changed a major blowout and he said, 'I'll never be able to go to school!' (no, he wasn't happy about it)
(no, he wasn't happy about it)Ahhh!! That is sad when they want to go but can't. That means the teachers are doing their job.Morning Susan! Thanks - poor baby, I just changed a major blowout and he said, 'I'll never be able to go to school!'
PotteryGal
Active Member
She was Abby's second grade teacher also. She also lives in our same neighborhood and got to see Joel in his Halloween costume, which she loved.
That is good.She was Abby's second grade teacher also. She also lives in our same neighborhood and got to see Joel in his Halloween costume, which she loved.
Now I need to go. Time to get busy. Sherri is going to school and if she needs me she can call me.
PotteryGal
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Have a good day Susan :wave:
