My fiance and I are DVC members and usually average at least 2 Disney visits a year. Its been about 3-4 short visits per year the past couple of years.
80% of these visits are just the 2 of us, and although we are Disney nuts we never feel out of place or wierd without having kids.
There are so many things at Disney that a couple can do just like any other nice vacation resort. Great pools, dining, resorts, restaurants, nightlife, shopping, etc.
We just got back this Monday. We were there from 9/7-9/11, for the NOJ concerts and planning our wedding! Of course Disney is Romantic thats why its one of the top honeymoon destinations in the world. Its just that most people dont think of it as romantic. Heck most people think of it as an :fork: Amusement Park!!:fork: But thats better for us!! Believe me our wedding is going to be very elegant/romantic...with just a small bit of Disney flair!.(It better be for all this $$$$:lol: ) But thats for a later post in December after the big event.
I have no personal stake in this but I use this book all the time in helping planning ideas for the 2 of us. I think its well worth the cost. "Disney World for Couples"....here is a link
http://www.amazon.com/Walt-Disney-W...=pd_bbs_1/104-4039960-3507119?ie=UTF8&s=books
It breaks out everything with a slant towards romance and what is good for couples. Get it before you leave and take their advice!