The Last Hurrah

The Last Hurrah...Major Update, Page 6, post 86...guess who called??

The Last Hurrah…July 13-21

…or the final trip before I get married.



Yes folks this is the tale of my final trip to Walt Disney World as a single guy! Next May I’ll be tying the knot with my beloved fiancée and it just recently hit me that this past week will be the last time I go to WDW the same way. From now on things will be different, a good different, but nonetheless different. And to be honest, realizing this impending change, I’ve become increasingly emotional and reflective. So I’m putting together this trip report to share with you the fun times we had on our last hurrah!

First an introduction and some important background information:

The Players:

Dear Aunt (DA) – a 60 year old kid at heart, she has bad legs and has to use a scooter to get around, uses a handicapped parking permit. She’s the matriarch of these trips, taking her nieces and nephews along on her vacations to share with us the magic of Disney.

Dear Sister (DS) – a 23 year old with some pretty serious issues. She played a major and incredibly negative role in this trip, which I will probably leave out of this report due to its personal and negative connotations. Basically she has attitude problems that lead to emotional outbursts. Don’t be surprised if you hear little or nothing about her in this report.

Dear Cousin (DC) – My 25 year old partner in crime! He’s been my best friend for life, born three weeks before I was we’ve grown up together. We’ve been going to WDW with DA for several years and spent many a wonderful time!

Dear Fiancée (DF) – My 24 year old soul mate…the love of my life. We were engaged on April 1st, 2007 and have set a date of May 17, 2008 for our wedding. She’s been to WDW before, but only on day trips. Never stayed at a WDW resort and hasn’t been since 1997.

Me – 25 year old former WDW CM, worked on Main Street during my CP in early 2001, then took a full time position as a Fast Pass team member and eventually went part time while finishing college as a Jungle Cruise Skipper. I’ve been to WDW more than 20 times on vacation and still get emotional every time I have to leave that magical place!

The Setting:


Check-in: July 13, 2007
Check-out: July 21, 2007

DA, DS & DF stayed at the Hawaii Concierge building at the Polynesian Resort. It’s been our Disney home for the past 4 years.
DC and I stayed at the Wilderness Lodge in a Standard View Room for the first time. DC was a last minute addition to the trip and due to maintain livable sleeping arrangements, we added a room at the WL for the two of us, this makes it easier for 5 single adults to sleep comfortably in their own beds.

The Prologue:
On Thursday July, 12, I woke up with a twinge of excitement that could mean only one thing! I looked at the date on my cell phone…then checked my date book….could it be??? YES! It was almost time to leave for our much anticipated annual trip to Walt Disney World. My bag was packed and I had a list of errands to run for the day before we could leave.

I stopped for lunch with my Mom at Pizza Hut then headed to my work to pick up my paycheck and say goodbye to my good friends there. Headed to the bank, home to pay my bills online and picked up my AAA TripTik. Picked up DC at this house, headed to target to pick up some wrinkle releaser for our clothes and dropped by the pharmacy to pick up some medicine for DF. Finally at 5pm DC and I met the rest of the crew at DA’s house and hit the road for our trip to WDW.

This was the culmination of almost 5 months of planning, done mostly by me. I was nervous for a few reasons. I know how my sister acts and I was praying that she’d keep her attitude/outbursts in check. I was nervous about staying at two separate resorts. I was dreading the 13.5 hour drive. I was nervous about how DF would enjoy WDW…hoping she’d love it as much as I do. I was nervous because I knew that this would be the last time I’d go to WDW like this…an all expenses paid, super deluxe vacation with the people I love the most.

In retrospect, the trip had some incredible highlights and sharing my favorite place in the world with my favorite person in the world was incredible. Unfortunately, this trip was also marred by a couple of major things: The valet service, the room and service at the Poly and those outbursts of my sister. I’ll talk about the first two problems as we go along, but I’m going to try and stress the positive times. I hope you enjoy my report and I look forward to sharing with you all!

I'll be updating with new posts throughout the day and the rest of this week...hope to have some pics available by the end of the week.

Cheers,
Josh
 

Jungle Skipper

New Member
Original Poster
any news from DS' Dr.


Well, DS did go to the doctor as scheduled, but apparently he told her nothing was wrong. The problem is, she doesn't think anything is wrong and didn't want to go in the first place. So more than likely, she just told him, she didn't think anything was wrong and she didn't need to be there. not much you can do to FORCE someone to go to the doctor and be honest. He didn't run any tests or anything...so who knows.

Since then, DS has calmed down a lot. Still talking smack about us all from the trip and telling all kinds of people what horrible people we are and how I'm some evil mastermind trying to make her look bad. I guess she doesn't realize the people she's griping to know me and like me better...so they've told me and I have no reason to doubt them.

She hasn't been yelling or barking at me anymore...in fact for the past week she has been trying to talk to me...but only if she needs/wants something.

I'm standing my ground though, until she apologizes...then I'm still keeping her at a distance. Is that bad?

In other news, got my voucher from WDW today. I called and inquired about using it for the honeymoon suite at the Polynesian for one night. So keep your fingers crossed. As for the rest of the honeymoon, I'm planning for the WL...not sure what level yet...booked woodsview for now, but one of my good CM friends from the past got in touch with me and wants to help me get a CM friend/family rate for the honeymoon...so if they rate is good enough, I might go with a WL concierge.

How has everyone been? I've missed you all!

Cheers,
Josh
 

rwdavis2

Active Member
Skipper,
Have you ever asked here exactly what you (et al) did wrong on the trip to make her so upset? I'd be curious to know exactly what her perceptions and expectations were.
Bob
 

Jungle Skipper

New Member
Original Poster
Skipper,
Have you ever asked here exactly what you (et al) did wrong on the trip to make her so upset? I'd be curious to know exactly what her perceptions and expectations were.
Bob

I've tried asking...but get no response. Its like talking to a parrot....if you asked her what everyone did that was so bad, she spouts back that we're horrible people and treated here $#%@% #$@% %$# @#%% @#$%...and so on....when asked to clarify said treatment its more of the same response.

I don't know what to think. She's calmed down now, but still being weird.

Cheers,
Josh
 

LoriMistress

Well-Known Member
I've read your trip report. And please in any form please don't take this as a personal attack, but from what you discribed it sounds like your sisterhas a meth addiction. She breaks into sudden and intense emotional outbursts, can't hold a job, a pathological liar, non-stop talks/rambles/rants/etc., violent and/or hot tempered. She sounds completely unstable and sounds like she needs professional help.
 

NewfieFan

Well-Known Member
This post is alittle late but I'm new here and just read your TR. All I can say is, WOW!!! I laughed, I cried, I yelled... I'm pretty sure you could turn this TR into a major motion picture. I could say a lot here but I won't and I'm going to keep my thoughts on your sister to myself. The only advice I'm going to give you is remember your wedding day is YOUR wedding day. This is one time in your life to be completely selfish. Only do what you and your DF want to do. You only get one wedding and it's all about the two of you and no one else! I'm wishing you a wonderful wedding and a magical honeymoon.:wave: (Don't let anyone mess with your special day!!!)
 

Jungle Skipper

New Member
Original Poster
Hey all...thanks for all the love! Glad you enjoy my report everyone! Still working on pics...sorry, I suck I know!

But AWESOME news from WDW...the Poly called and they have booked me for one free night in the Honeymoon suite! The last night of our WDW honeymoon! Pretty cool huh?

I feel special!

Cheers,
Josh
 

eroyee

Active Member
:wave: I dont usually read trip reports but I couldnt stop reading yours. Great reporting and so enjoyable, except for the DS. I hope your DF considers having someone else as the bridesmaid. Your whole wedding could be ruined and that would be so awful for the memories. Like someone else said, have her involved in some other way. stay at the WL. that is our most fave resort ever! have a happy honeymoon. I am sure this trip will be WAY more fun! have a magical time! thanks again for the report. so fun!!:sohappy:
 

PotteryGal

Active Member
I've read your trip report. And please in any form please don't take this as a personal attack, but from what you discribed it sounds like your sisterhas a meth addiction. She breaks into sudden and intense emotional outbursts, can't hold a job, a pathological liar, non-stop talks/rambles/rants/etc., violent and/or hot tempered. She sounds completely unstable and sounds like she needs professional help.


I must say, I've read this entire trip report, and WOW! You deserve an award for your patience, sir! I must admit, I thought your DS's behavior sounded bipolar...but you're right. She has to admit there's a problem or nothing will change. Just stick to your guns, you have every right to demand an apology. And best wishes to you and your fiance, it sounds like you'll have an awesome honeymoon! May your life together be truly blessed! :wave:
 

Jungle Skipper

New Member
Original Poster
Hey all! Thanks for the latest posts! A few important updates:

** DS has continued with her bizzaro attitude for the past several weeks. She has now been telling people that her doctor told her that she was perfectly fine and it sounded like I was the one in need of mental help! :veryconfu :brick:

Then this week she has continued her personal attacks by saying no wthat she never said she 'hoped' my marriage would fail, but that she 'knew it would fail' because my fiancee is needy...:mad:

**I was so angered by this statement that I ended up getting my dad involved and we had a sit down, with him present, so he could hear how she was acting. She couldn't answer any of the questions asked (i.e. give me three examples of how this statement of my fiancee being needy)

I reiterated that to repair things she had to apologize for her actions and the hateful hyperbole that she has been spouting since we've returned. At this she acted offened and left...saying if anyone owed apologies it was us. Obviously someone in delusional and in need of help.

** So I told my parents last night that we were going to have someone else as the fifth bridesmaid. That We were not having anyone who could say such horrible things about us, in our wedding. Mom's disappointed...not in us, but in the fact that we have to make a decision like this. As am I.

**On a lighter note...found out last weekend that the carnival cruise we were planning to take to begin our honeymoon...well, it was canceld and Carnival didn't notify us. So I was forced to start looking elsewhere. Unfortunatey I couldn't find another 4 day cruise that fit our schedules. Luckily I found a 3-day cruise that was within my budget: a 3 night voyage on the DISNEY WONDER! :D

Its going to bump the budget up a little, but thats okay, we can handle it. Oh and that means we have to add another day to our WDW stay...darn my luck! :ROFLOL:

So as of now this is our plan:

May 2008:
Saturday -- Wedding night
Wednesday -- Leave for Honeymoon
Thursday -- Board 3 day cruise on Wonder
Sunday -- Day at Port Canaveral then head to WDW. Check into WL (she thinks POFQ...although if my discount doesn't work out like I think it will, then I may actually move us to the POFQ)
Six nights -- WL Woods View
Seventh Night-- Polynesian HoneyMoon Suite
Next day...late check out and drive home.

So yeah...thoughts?

Cheers,
Josh
 

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