I'm not a big guy and I can't pack away the food. With that said, the normal dining room felt like a comfortably large meal for us. I'd love to do chef's table or the queen's room, but I know it'd be too much food, even when you account for the smaller portions. I believe Chef's Table and Queen's Room now have the exact same menu. When we went, the 8-10 course meal was available in the dining room, too.
All said and done, a meal for two, without wine pairings, but with the wagyu tasting was $550 with tip. I believe you can share a wine pairing, so you're only poured half potions.
While some might argue that the food's not the best on property (Not me! It was a very remarkable meal), I doubt you'll find any restaurant with the same level of service. We were walking towards the waiting area with a few folks who were going to Citrico's. The moment we walked in front of the V&A doors (Looking for V&A), one of the servers opened the doors, greeted us by name, and told us our table was ready. Upon seating, we were brought a stool for my girlfriend's purse and our camera. When we mentioned we were from Chicago, our server brought Chef Hunnel out to chat with us, as he went to school near us.
Even if it's your first haute dining experience, the staff will make you feel very comfortable and welcome. AND, they clear the settings between each course. You never have to worry if you're using the right fork!
I don't think anyone here has mentioned it, but another great part of V&A? No children under 10. I love kids, but it's -wonderful- to sit down to a 3 hour meal where it's quiet and peaceful. Especially when you've spent the past few days witnessing melt downs!
The dress code is a nice change of pace, too. You don't have to worry about seeing half foot long arm pit hair or "clever" offensive shirts.
The food is incredible. But! It's the type of food where you have to go all in. If you just eat what you think is safe and leave off the rest, you're missing out on the experience. It's like in Ratatouille, when Remy is explaining food flavors. I don't care for organ meats, so the thought of sweat breads wasn't quite sitting well with me. However, it was -delicious-.
There was a couple seated behind us who asked for substitutions on EVERY dish. While the staff bent over backwards for them, and substituted duck for chicken, and bison for lamb, and corn shoots for pieces of corn...
I'm sure you'll find plenty of better pictures online, but here are a few I took. You might not be able to see it in these pictures, but the table decorations, salt bowl, and butter dish were always placed in a straight line that perfectly divided the table in half.