mkepcotmgmak said:
When Ben enjoys his trips to wdw, does he venture onto other rides, or is snow white pretty much it for him? if he has ridden other rides, how well did he react to trying something new.
Left entirely to his own devices, Ben would do nothing but go round and round on Snow White's Scary Adventures for hours on end. On one visit early on when we moved here I learned through direct personal experience that it is possible to ride SWSA six times in under eighteen minutes. Shortly after that we instituted a rule: he gets to go on SWSA three times in a row, and then he has to do someting else. At first it was a real battle, and I feel badly for more than a few random passing strangers who were randomly kicked by him because he was upset about not getting his way. Over time enforcing that rule has really paid off. After his three laps, when prompted he will very happily go ride Pooh or Dumbo, or go see Mickey's Philharmagic. More often than not he will go on Peter Pan's Flight, and we can usually get him over to Tomorrowland to go on TTA and Buzz Lightyear. He has been on Small World twice since it reopened, which is quite an acheivement because of a phobia he has about water-based attractions (long story). In the past month we have also been successful finally getting him over to the other side of the park. He has taken the train a few times, and at least walked through Frontierland, Adventureland, and Liberty Square. I would like to try to get him back on Pirates (the last time he did that ride was probably two years ago), but I think we still have a bit of work to do there. Overall, though, he is progressing very well. So the short version is, we use SWSA as the carrot to get him out into the park.
mkepcotmgmak said:
Was there something about the snow white ride (before he had ever been on it) that he was fascinated with and saw on the ride?
SWSA was the very first ride he went on, so that is part of it. The larger part is that he has always loved watching Disney videos, and Snow White is one of his favorites. In particular when he is watching videos he will fixate on a particular piece of dialog or an interesting sound, and he will play that same five or ten second clip over and over again. What SWSA has going for it, moreso than any other attraction in the park, is that the entire ride is made up of audio clips lifted directly from the movie. Most of those audio clips are ones he had fixated on long ago. So going on SWSA is like getting an intense three minute burst of all of his favorite sounds, and he is most definitely an audio-driven person. As I have told a few cast members, SWSA is basically Benjamin crack.
mkepcotmgmak said:
Any advice on how to make justin's trip more enjoyable is greatly appreciated. they are going back in july, and they are going for him, so if he wants to ride the train a million times, they will, but they want him to enjoy other things as well. thanks again for any advice, and all of your great stories!
My best suggestion is to use the train as positive reinforcement as much as possible. There are the three stops, so maybe the rule is that he has to get off at each stop and do one thing. Stopping in ToonTown should be easy, he just has to go visit Mickey. Stopping at Main Street, maybe he has to go visit the Exposition Hall. I have found that it is a really excellent place because it is almost always deserted back in the theater area, so it's a nice calm place (with air conditioning!) to kind of relax for a while. The photo setups and the timeline mural have plenty of details to look at, and the three shorts that run in a loop are all fun. The stop at Frontierland might be a little harder, but maybe he would enjoy a visit to Tom Sawyer island. The key is to continually reassure him that he is being very brave trying something new, and that afterward he will get to ride the train again.
Another tool we have used is photo albums. We carry a couple of different photo books we have made with pictures of SWSA (thanks Beth!) as well as other things around the park. When he is overwhelmed, or having to wait in a line, he can look at the pictures and it makes him happy.
We also keep a portable CD player with the kind of headphones that completely cover the ears. Again, it helps him shut out all of the noise when he is getting overwhelmed and lets him focus on some music that he likes. Particularly when walking through his less favorite parts of the park, having the music really keeps him calmer and willing to explore a little bit.
Be sure to get a Guest Assistance Pass for the entire party when you get to the park. It will get him in through the FastPass entrances, or through whatever alternate entrance is available. Waiting in the long lines can be extremely frustrating for these children, and not in a whiny impatient brat way but in a very intense and phobic way. The GAP will help to minimize the waits as much as possible so that you can get to the rewards as quickly as possible and reinforce his good behavior.
Off the top of my head that's all I can think of, I hope it helps. It's funny, you would think that WDW would be stimulation overload for kids like Ben; the truth is that the environment is so stylized and predictible that all of the stimulation becomes somehow safe. Best of luck, and if there is anyting else I can do to help please do not hesitate to ask.