This is a discussion forum. By posting, you are volunteering your statement (opinion or fact) for commentary, retort, agreement, celebration, whatever. It's like walking into a circle of people having a discussion, and blurting out your own input. If it meshes well with the ongoing conversation, it may build the conversation, or even turn it. But even if purely opinion, it's likely to spark a response. If it's an statement that differs radically from your audience's prior understanding, its likely to be challenged... regardless of 'fact or opinion'.
It's simply part of conversation. Its possible people won't agree with your claim, and unlike a lecture, or face to face, the asynchronous nature of text forums makes conversation more blunt or disjointed. Some take offense to that.
Well, if you can articulate your thoughts and beliefs in a credible way.. generally people won't turn to the name calling. The less they can do so, probably the quicker it comes out.
So you post an opinion.. someone has a differing one. Either you wonder why, you explore why, you ignore it, or articulate your position and counter point. If you get upset over someone having a differing view (and challenging you in doing so)... you may have a problem with an open turf discussion forum.
Uhh.. while that was my first post towards him in this thread.. that is not the first post he's made on the forum that I've read or interacted with. Users have histories that extend beyond single threads..
I don't think it's a 'crime'... but if you are going to participate in a discussion with other people on the business, the industry, and the company itself... yes, we all need to live within the same reality. Just because the subject matter is entertainment including fantasy.. that doesn't mean we should all act like we ourselves live in a fantasy world.
Well some things come with the common understanding of the people in the conversation. If you jump into a circle of people that have a long history of covering a topic.. there are things that are commonly understood between them without having to spell it out first. Often people come in blindly without noticing that and take it the wrong way.. are everyone saints? No.. but if you come in without awareness of your audience.. things tend to be a rougher start
If they are acting irrational and don't represent anything you want to be a part of - you don't have to have their posts interfere with your experience.. use the ignore link. I'm not saying you need to create a 'view that only matches your world' - but if there are a few that you just feel you can't rationalize with... just ignore them.
It's only a discussion forum about a hobby/interest
And kudos to
@ParentsOf4 of saying it much more concisely