sweetpee_1993
Well-Known Member
The OP sorta came off pretty harsh. I understand the frustrations when you see people blatantly abuse the system. That's true in everything as other posters have mentioned.
That said, I caution those who are quick to judge. You don't know those people or their circumstances.
Several years ago I worked with a really great lady, single mom, worked very long hours to provide for her 3 kids. Great human being. If you saw her on an ECV you might think that's a lazy overweight person who needs to get off their tush & walk. The truth is this particular lady has arthritis so she physically cannot be doing a lot of walking which in turn has caused her weight issues. Then the weight issues cause the problems with her arthritis to worsen. She has tried everything under the sun to get her insurance provider to pay for her to have surgery to address the weight problems but they refuse. And a single mom supporting 3 kids just doesn't have the money to foot the bill on her own. An ECV is not optional for this person. Her condition is not something she is too lazy to do something about. She physically cannot.
Another example. My aunt was in a terrible car accident 20 years ago. Her leg/foot/ankle were broken very, very badly. Here's a lady who is a painfully independent soul who wants nothing from nobody. She has always prided herself in being completely self-sufficient. Her broken bones have never healed properly and to this day is permanently disabled. If you saw her cruising thru the parks on an ECV you'd never know there was anything wrong with her. If you saw her standing you'd not know. Occasionally she takes a few steps that can almost pass as normal. However, getting thru any amount of walking is not a luxury she has anymore. Believe me, she'd far rather be on foot like us zipping about. Unfortunately that wasn't the hand she was dealt. Some of you may look at her & think she's another bum abusing the system. Not so. I'm proud to say that she does not let her disability stop her from doing anything she wants to do. She rents her cart, does WDW solo when she feels like it, and doesn't depend on anyone else to do for her. She's as big a Disney fanatic as the rest of us so I'm happy for her to keep on doing what she loves in spite of what others may think.
And finally, I'd like to tell you about my father-in-law. Three years ago he was diagnosed with prostate cancer. He did a lot of research into all his options & elected to have radiation pellets inserted around the affected area vs. having the highly invasive surgery to remove everything. We were blessed in that the treatment worked and he's now cancer-free. The drawback is that there's still metal rods in there that weigh down & cause him excruciating pain when he stands or walks for prolonged periods. Also, that kind of activity can & has caused him to pass blood. Additionally, he has 3 vertebrae in his lower back that were broken when he was a kid. When on his feet or moving about for long periods he has numbness in his legs, shooting pain, and his back & neck cause him tremendous pain. My in-laws joined us at WDW in January. My father-in-law refused to rent an ECV. Following Illuminations one night we walked from just outside Germany to our resort bus. We had to stop 3 times for him to sit & rest. He had the worst time trying to keep moving throughout the trip and admits now that maybe he shouldn't have been so hard-headed about that cart. If you saw him in a park on an ECV you might think there's nothing wrong with him. If he parked his ECV and hopped off you might think, "Hey! That guy is being lazy!" In actuality, you couldn't be more wrong. My in-laws are discussing going back to WDW and a cart will be used by my FiL. I hope nobody says anything to him because they'll be peeling some of us off of them.
You can't judge a person by appearances or by 2 minutes of watching them. That's not fair. I understand there are those who would abuse the systems set up to help those who need it. I've seen those people myself. But is it fair to mistreat everyone because of those bad apples? I think not. Be kind. Leave the rest to karma. You never know, it might be you or your loved one needing a wheelchair or a cart someday. Treat those folks as you would want your loved one to be treated.
That said, I caution those who are quick to judge. You don't know those people or their circumstances.
Several years ago I worked with a really great lady, single mom, worked very long hours to provide for her 3 kids. Great human being. If you saw her on an ECV you might think that's a lazy overweight person who needs to get off their tush & walk. The truth is this particular lady has arthritis so she physically cannot be doing a lot of walking which in turn has caused her weight issues. Then the weight issues cause the problems with her arthritis to worsen. She has tried everything under the sun to get her insurance provider to pay for her to have surgery to address the weight problems but they refuse. And a single mom supporting 3 kids just doesn't have the money to foot the bill on her own. An ECV is not optional for this person. Her condition is not something she is too lazy to do something about. She physically cannot.
Another example. My aunt was in a terrible car accident 20 years ago. Her leg/foot/ankle were broken very, very badly. Here's a lady who is a painfully independent soul who wants nothing from nobody. She has always prided herself in being completely self-sufficient. Her broken bones have never healed properly and to this day is permanently disabled. If you saw her cruising thru the parks on an ECV you'd never know there was anything wrong with her. If you saw her standing you'd not know. Occasionally she takes a few steps that can almost pass as normal. However, getting thru any amount of walking is not a luxury she has anymore. Believe me, she'd far rather be on foot like us zipping about. Unfortunately that wasn't the hand she was dealt. Some of you may look at her & think she's another bum abusing the system. Not so. I'm proud to say that she does not let her disability stop her from doing anything she wants to do. She rents her cart, does WDW solo when she feels like it, and doesn't depend on anyone else to do for her. She's as big a Disney fanatic as the rest of us so I'm happy for her to keep on doing what she loves in spite of what others may think.
And finally, I'd like to tell you about my father-in-law. Three years ago he was diagnosed with prostate cancer. He did a lot of research into all his options & elected to have radiation pellets inserted around the affected area vs. having the highly invasive surgery to remove everything. We were blessed in that the treatment worked and he's now cancer-free. The drawback is that there's still metal rods in there that weigh down & cause him excruciating pain when he stands or walks for prolonged periods. Also, that kind of activity can & has caused him to pass blood. Additionally, he has 3 vertebrae in his lower back that were broken when he was a kid. When on his feet or moving about for long periods he has numbness in his legs, shooting pain, and his back & neck cause him tremendous pain. My in-laws joined us at WDW in January. My father-in-law refused to rent an ECV. Following Illuminations one night we walked from just outside Germany to our resort bus. We had to stop 3 times for him to sit & rest. He had the worst time trying to keep moving throughout the trip and admits now that maybe he shouldn't have been so hard-headed about that cart. If you saw him in a park on an ECV you might think there's nothing wrong with him. If he parked his ECV and hopped off you might think, "Hey! That guy is being lazy!" In actuality, you couldn't be more wrong. My in-laws are discussing going back to WDW and a cart will be used by my FiL. I hope nobody says anything to him because they'll be peeling some of us off of them.
You can't judge a person by appearances or by 2 minutes of watching them. That's not fair. I understand there are those who would abuse the systems set up to help those who need it. I've seen those people myself. But is it fair to mistreat everyone because of those bad apples? I think not. Be kind. Leave the rest to karma. You never know, it might be you or your loved one needing a wheelchair or a cart someday. Treat those folks as you would want your loved one to be treated.