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nibblesandbits

nibblesandbits

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maggiegrace1 said:
Nibbs..I do not think he thinks that it is everyones else's problem and not his..but in this situation..he is the odd one out..

It is something different and unexpected to all of you and I am sure he wishes that everyone would just treat it the way they would if he had a gf..

I think he knows how hard this is because it is something new and different to you all but he wants it to be treated like it was "Okay" to you all.

I think counseling for all of you would be a good thing..that way you all can get a better understanding of each others side.

Maybe if you talk to him and tell him that you do love him but you need to get used to this and that will take some time but you are willing to get to know and understand what is going on in his head..

I know some people feel differently but you know he just wants to have the same things that you have and everyone else has in their own relationships..love and companionship and happiness..it is just in a different way then you and everyone else is used too.

It still is the same though...Love is love..no matter who you are with and maybe once he see's that you are all willing to try to understand better he will lighten up..He is in defense mode it seems and he feels like he has to defend what he is doing.:shrug:

I may be wrong but that is my thoughts..

HUGS!:kiss:
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Dana...that was beautiful. And a lot of it was definitely true.


Dana said:
Maybe if you talk to him and tell him that you do love him but you need to get used to this and that will take some time but you are willing to get to know and understand what is going on in his head..
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This part is what I did last night, but was the sticking point and why he was getting so angry. His thinking was that if I did love him I wouldn't need to get used to it. And that I shouldn't have to get used to it. And that was what the fight really entailed.

But way to go on making me tear up...:cry:
 
maggiegrace1

maggiegrace1

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nibblesandbits said:
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Dana...that was beautiful. And a lot of it was definitely true.




This part is what I did last night, but was the sticking point and why he was getting so angry. His thinking was that if I did love him I wouldn't need to get used to it. And that I shouldn't have to get used to it. And that was what the fight really entailed.

But way to go on making me tear up...:cry:
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Aww..Im sorry to make you cry love..:kiss:

I also think like I said ..he is in defense mode..that is why the fight happened..

It is so hard I know..but just be there for him and it will all be ok..the fact that he apologized is great..He knows that it is hard for you all..but it is just as hard for him..probably harder...

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nibblesandbits

nibblesandbits

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maggiegrace1 said:
Aww..Im sorry to make you cry love..:kiss:

I also think like I said ..he is in defense mode..that is why the fight happened..

It is so hard I know..but just be there for him and it will all be ok..the fact that he apologized is great..He knows that it is hard for you all..but it is just as hard for him..probably harder...

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Yes...he's definitely in defense mode. And with that I don't know what to do. But that's definitely why the fight happened. B/c we were having a wonderful time together before.

And he probably wishes it was easy for us so that we could make it easier for him. But unfortunately, it's not...and my parents are definitely not making it easier. This is very hard for them and I really don't think they'll ever truly accept him. No matter how much I tell them that they're going to have to. Nothing's going to change and he's not going to be straight. (Mom keeps saying little things about how she hopes this is just a phase...I keep saying, no it's not...and you're going to have to get over that fact.)

I definitely wouldn't want to go through this myself though (as him)...and I don't know how people do. It really isn't easy...for all parties involved.
 
Connor002

Connor002

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Pongo said:
Is that bad? :lookaroun
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Depends who's listening to us... :lookaroun
DisneyBunny said:
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Ah! She's so cute!
Uponastar said:
Seriously though. . .
The other day I was cleaning out my coffee table drawers and found a book of word puzzles. Inside the book were several cutout copies of old NY Times Sunday Crosswords. I just looked at all of it and realized that's what I did before I found you all. That's how I spent my quiet evening time. . . watching TV and doing my word puzzles. It used to be enough. Now I don't miss it at all. I guess I always wanted more and didn't know it. . .until I found it.
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Wow.
You were boring. :lookaroun
Nemo14 said:
I used to do Sodukos every night....
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You too.
 
Connor002

Connor002

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For the record, I think it is inappropriate to talk negatively about any other member of this board on this thread. Not only is it rude, but it can also be seen by the poster. This is not a place to publicly ridicule other posters.
 

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