nothing to do with Disney but i need help!

Disneydreamer23

Disneydreamer23

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Hello every one i need help I am getting married and our best man just punked out on us his fiance is polish and they are getting married a month before me.. he told me its bad luck for a married guy to stand up in a wedding according to a polish myth? Does any one have any imput on this?? My fiance is his groomsmen in his wedding do you think we should punk out on him need advice!!
 
Wilt Dasney

Wilt Dasney

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Wow, what a predicament. I wouldn't suggest retaliating against your friend out of spite, but I can understand the temptation. I hope this doesn't ruin your friendship long term. :-/
 
mrsdanalind

mrsdanalind

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Married Groomsmen

The Mom said:
Just a FYI - if it's OK to have a Matron of Honor, I don't see the problem with a married Groomsman. I was a bridesmaid in a Polish wedding a long (40 years) time ago, and I'm pretty sure some of the Groomsmen were married. I can't imagine that things have gotten stricter/more traditional since then. ;)

http://www.polishamericancenter.org/PolishWeddingTraditionsInstructionBooklet.pdf
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Well I am partially Polish and that is a bunch of beans. There is nothing wrong with a married Best man, just as there is nothing wrong with a married Maid of Honor. My husbands BM was married, I'd say find another Best man, and move on. Don't let this influence your friendship. Good luck and God Bless your wedding:king:
 
Uponastar

Uponastar

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I'm of Polish descent and I've never heard of that tradition. If you're sure that's the real reason for his backing out I'd just chalk it up to his just trying to please his future wife and let it go at that. I wouldn't back out of his wedding. Weddings sometime make otherwise normal people do crazy things. :D Not worth losing a friend over it.
 
Disneydreamer23

Disneydreamer23

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this is my fiances old high school buddy and ive only met him once it would be no bother to me the bother thing is i ordered the gifts for wedding party and it was 87.00 a person and its PERSONALIZED a flask and set of 4 glasses also personalized ! with his name also i paid all th4e guys deposits on their tuxs which was 40.00 i cant get that back either.. i called so he -pretty much cost me 130.00!
 
Monty

Monty

Brilliant...and Canadian
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Disneydreamer23 said:
this is my fiances old high school buddy and ive only met him once it would be no bother to me the bother thing is i ordered the gifts for wedding party and it was 87.00 a person and its PERSONALIZED a flask and set of 4 glasses also personalized ! with his name also i paid all th4e guys deposits on their tuxs which was 40.00 i cant get that back either.. i called so he -pretty much cost me 130.00!
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I would respectfully ask him to cover your costs incurred. Or reduce your present for their wedding by at least that much... :lookaroun
 

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