Disneydreamer23
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depends on if the guy was like DIsney wasnt for me but I would go again and especially if i have kids.. if they straight up said I hate Disney well lets say I dont get along with many people who hate that place ;-)
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Not liking disney theme parks is a relationship breaker.anyone else?
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Goofyernmost
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I think it depends on your age more than anything. I cannot imagine that when I was young it ever would have mattered to me at all. But then again, back then, I wasn't a fan.
I have been divorced now for 11 years (not Disney related) and my interests are much more limited. One of the big things for me is WDW. I have dated a few times since my divorce and been in a couple of relationships since then, but they all ended and they usually were connected to there lack of desire to be involved with Disney. There, of course, were other reasons as well, but when your interests are basically sacrificed because of an outside agent stifling them, it's hard to feel positive about being together.
Now that I am older then dirt, finding anyone interested in a relationship is difficult anyway, but since a mad, passionate love life isn't really going to happen at my age, there has to be some other bonding method.
When I meet someone within a brief period of time I will bring up the subject. I have gotten a variety of responses, the two most interesting was one person that just rolled her eyes at me and the other that actually asked me.."How old did you say you were?
Needless to say, those two never got to stage two!
So that was a long way of answering the question which is Yes, it definitely can be a deal breaker for me.
I have been divorced now for 11 years (not Disney related) and my interests are much more limited. One of the big things for me is WDW. I have dated a few times since my divorce and been in a couple of relationships since then, but they all ended and they usually were connected to there lack of desire to be involved with Disney. There, of course, were other reasons as well, but when your interests are basically sacrificed because of an outside agent stifling them, it's hard to feel positive about being together.
Now that I am older then dirt, finding anyone interested in a relationship is difficult anyway, but since a mad, passionate love life isn't really going to happen at my age, there has to be some other bonding method.
When I meet someone within a brief period of time I will bring up the subject. I have gotten a variety of responses, the two most interesting was one person that just rolled her eyes at me and the other that actually asked me.."How old did you say you were? Needless to say, those two never got to stage two!
So that was a long way of answering the question which is Yes, it definitely can be a deal breaker for me.
cheezbat
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Haha...
Well...there have to be things you have in common with a person or the relationship will never go anywhere. For me they don't have to love Disney, but they have to accept or appreciate my enthusiasm for theme parks and roller coasters. If not, I know it won't work out.
I dated a girl from Cali years ago and I invited her to go with me to Disneyland. She responded by telling me no, because she doesn't like theme parks. I almost contemplated breaking up with her then, but figured that was only one thing we didn't share as an interest. Sadly, I came to find out she only ate healthy foods, never ate out, wanted me to quit my job for something she would like, and she never would visit me here in florida. Those were all factors playing in to our breakup.
But still...how could you not like Disney?
Well...there have to be things you have in common with a person or the relationship will never go anywhere. For me they don't have to love Disney, but they have to accept or appreciate my enthusiasm for theme parks and roller coasters. If not, I know it won't work out.
I dated a girl from Cali years ago and I invited her to go with me to Disneyland. She responded by telling me no, because she doesn't like theme parks. I almost contemplated breaking up with her then, but figured that was only one thing we didn't share as an interest. Sadly, I came to find out she only ate healthy foods, never ate out, wanted me to quit my job for something she would like, and she never would visit me here in florida. Those were all factors playing in to our breakup.
But still...how could you not like Disney?
Obi Walt Kenobi
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No not entirely, in a relationship at least a healthy one you learn to support each others interested and find command ground where you can meet in the middle on things that you don't agree on. At least I think that's how it works?
MissingDisney
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No. My therapist said yes, I mean NO. It's not healthy to be obsessed, I mean passionate about something so much that it dictates, I mean ruins, I mean guides other areas of your life....
Kidding. My DH was not a 'fan' until he went with me and he loved it. Some people just have the wrong idea and don't know until they get there.... so take them!!
Kidding. My DH was not a 'fan' until he went with me and he loved it. Some people just have the wrong idea and don't know until they get there.... so take them!!
powlessfamily4
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I agree that everyone has different likes and dislikes, however when a person feels very passionately about something you better make sure you can more than tolerate it. You either find it in yourself to like it or walk away. It will eventually be a deal breaker. Learning to "tolerate" a mates passion will never work. Find something about it to like and join them in it. It makes for as much longer, happier marriage/partnership. My DH likes and enjoys Disney but sees no reason to go more than twice a year. Now he goes once a year and finances a Mother Daughter trip! I used to be a Football widow and couldn't wait for the season to be over - now I am a total Steelers Fan and help him with his FF stats. We compromised and we are happy.
I used to be a Football widow and couldn't wait for the season to be over - now I am a total Steelers Fan and help him with his FF stats. We compromised and we are happy.
Spike-in-Berlin
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Well it is at least quite a problem. I spent a little less than two months of last 12 months in WDW with my GF. Of course I wouldn't make it mandatory, stays of this lenght, but a GF that doesn't like to go to WDW at all would be a challenge. I would either try to convince her or at least make clear, she has to do it at least one time every few years or lose me.
drkokintz
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Dated a girl I was really into that actively hated Disney (especially Epcot, my fav). It did make it tough, as we lived in central Florida, and she refused to go with me, so I basically never went. She loved Universal, of which I'm a big fan too, so we did that often. That helped, but I will admit that I really missed going to Disney and sharing it with an SO.
Then she broke up with me and I started dating someone who loves Disney as much as I, and we're getting married. The End!
Then she broke up with me and I started dating someone who loves Disney as much as I, and we're getting married. The End!
Spike-in-Berlin
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Congratulations!
bethymouse
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If I were interested in someone who absolutely hated Disney, then I couldn't go w/ him. My husband isn't a Disney fanatic like me, but he likes going on vacation there. It's the best place to go. He gets tired of the parks, but his favorite is the restaurants and relaxing at the resort. We have twin boys age 8, and they love the pool. So, we go to the parks, have dinner, and spend the evening at the pool. It's a wonderful vacation! You can never go wrong! My husband likes that! We get a lot for our $$$. I mean, where else can you go and get it ALL for the price. If you go anywhere else, it adds up ( not all-inclusive), and you're not GUARANTEED a great stay at a great hotel.
So... that being said, I guess I wouldn't be able to be w/ someone who wouldn't go to DISNEY.
So... that being said, I guess I wouldn't be able to be w/ someone who wouldn't go to DISNEY.
BrittanyRose428
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It wouldn't be a deal breaker as long as the guy didn't feel the need to shove it in my face all the time. If I tell my best friend for instance that I'm going to Disney her reaction is usually, 'Ugh.. again?? Thats for little kids, aren't you too old for that? Why don't you go anywhere else? Blah blah blah..." I couldn't date someone like that, but if a guy doesn't like it and thats the end of it I guess it'd be okay. Though my boyfriend is equally as obsessed as I am so I have nothing to worry about haha.
Pooh Lover
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Would definitely be a deal breaker for me. My DH is not the avid fan I am but he goes every year, loves the WL, is into buying Disney "stuff" on vacations and listens to my WDW music. If he had no interest at all and refused to go, he'd be outta here! That sounds so harsh so....I'd have to do my best to force him into going and having a good time.
scoobygirl39541
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Hmm I've thought about this because my boyfriend has no interest in going to Disney, but that's mainly because he's never been! He doesn't get why I like it so much. As of right now, I'm going to wait until he actually experiences it to make a decision. If he still doesn't like it, I don't know if I could live a Disney-less life. I've always dreamed of those big family vacations to the world!
luv
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You're welcome. I speak a little Internetese and am always happy to translate when I can.Thank you.
real mad hatter
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Well my DW was a non believer on our first trip until she caught Alice sitting on my lap during a photo meet & greet, She got so jealous,she hid my hat when we got home and doesn't allow me to wear it at WDW However she now has come to her senses and walks hand in hand everywhere in the parks with me. Don't you love a happy ending.
She got so jealous,she hid my hat when we got home and doesn't allow me to wear it at WDW However she now has come to her senses and walks hand in hand everywhere in the parks with me. Don't you love a happy ending.