Well I see both sides of this.... yes, as a parent you lifestyle has to change it is no longer just about you.... If your kid can act well in restaurants, they should be allowed to go....If they are a nightmare, yes their mood should dictate where you eat.I may get bashed for this and I swear I am not bashing the OP but I just can't understand children dictating the whole trip. I kept mine rested and hydrated with no high sugar treats. They never dictated, by their moods, what we did or didn't do. If they tried it all it took was "the look" and the straightened up quickly. Just my thoughts. Not throwing any shade because I know we all parent differently and each child is different.