A few thoughts...
A) Why bother asking an opinion if you've already made up your mind and shoot down any suggestions? You seem to just be looking for someone to confirm your choice and pat you on the back saying "Good job."
B) I don't agree at all. I think the Swan is the prefered of the two non-Disney resorts that loom over Epcot, but either way, they're both kinda ugly, don't offer the same Disney services as the rest of WDW resorts, and often have really poor service/amenities. Then the GF.. where to start? The place is a nightmare (in my opinion), please don't waste your money there. The decor is plastic, not victorian woodwork, and the staff is at best rude.
C) WDW Resorts offer honeymoon suites and rooms.
D) A little research goes a long ways. You can see photos of most any WDW room through allears.net - did you not notice the sidebar with each hotel listed? The idea of the photos is to present the resort, thus folks try very hard to get photos with few people in them as possible. These are not "oh, my spring break 2004!" photos with 5 giggling girls on a bed to show off a room - in which you can kinda make out the bedspread and some draperies.
E) Wow, when does anyone ever get to E? Anyways, I digress - i go back to my original statement. You seem to have made up your mind and just want someone to tell you it was a good choice. I honestly don't think you've researched or weighed your options if those two resorts are your only two choices. I don't think you understand the difference between WDW owned resorts and other resorts on Disney property, and I don't think you've really looked into the Grand Floridian in terms of actual amenities and rooms for the cost.
I very well could be wrong on all accounts, and seriously, i'm not meaning to sound snippy. It just irks me when people ask for advice but them turn every suggestion down seemingly made up their mind before asking the questions.
If you want to ask "Between the Dolphin and GF which would you pick?" my choice would be to stay home and never wish either on my worst enemy if they're looking for a good Disney vacation
