Well, that's the problem. No one seems too know...if you asked me, I would say she's not long for this world. If you asked her husband, he would say she just needs to get through this pneumonia (and she only has one lung, BTW) and then she'll be fine and back on the road to beating the cancer. The thing is a while back, when she was first in the ICU, she told Grant she was done. And Grant tried to find out what her wishes were in this type of situation and now his stepfather has accused him of trying to kill his (Grants) mother. Now she's in the ICU with a tracheotomy, all kind of bags and tubes. And the stepfather refuses to share any information so Grant and his sister are trying to find out what the real deal is with her ever getting better and whether or not she would want to live like this. From what I know of MIL, the answer is hell no. But because of HIPPA laws, I don't know how much anyone is allowed to tell Grant.
In other words, it ain't lookin' good.
That is sooo wrong. I understand but the children (grown-up age) needs to know. This is his mom. I know that wanting to keep her around for the FIL but not like this. I am sooo sorry for you and Grant. I would hope I would have the guts to let go if and when I would need to. ((Hugs)) and :kiss: :kiss: to ya'll.