An 8 year old girl with Asperger's (high functioning autistic) was HANDCUFFED by police after the school contacted authorities and taken away in a police car. Apparently this was over a sweatshirt she was wearing the day of some holiday party, and when told she had to change how it looked ( I think it was a cow hoodie with ears on the hood and a tail in the back), she tried to leave, was physically restrained by two teachers and went into full melt-down mode - kicking, spitting, hitting.
Now don't misunderstand where I'm coming from - I am NOT justifying her reaction. But the school handled it WRONG. It said they called the police and the mother, but when the mother got there, her daugher was being led to the cop car in handcuffs.
The school claims they were following policy and the mother knew - the mother says she never signed anything. Which leads me to think it's in general school policy and not in this child's IEP.
You can't discipline these kids the same way you do neurotypicals - you. just. can't. You have to know the kid, you have to know what they're sensitive to (touch, sound, etc) and you map out a discipline plan accordingly on that child's IEP. This kid was scared and lashed out because of it. The school escalated the situation, not handled it.
And this worried me that the cops went along. Training needs to be given to law enforcement on these behaviors. What's next? Taser them when they get out of hand???
*breathes deeply*