I've been pondering this topic for a few days - so sorry - I think this is going to be a LONG post - but it's relevant (or I guess we'll see...).
I'm originally from Saint Paul, moved to London to marry my husband (he's from Holloway - c'mon the Gunners blah, blah, blah...). The first few years we were married, we went back to Minnesota for Christmas - my husband's folks have both passed away and I wanted MY "family Christmas", as it had always been, just better - with my new husband included. But then we became parents (and the airfares more than doubled...) and we decided to celebrate Christmas here, in England, just our "little family".
The first year I felt a bit sad as the big day approached, thinking of all the things I would miss - all the things that would be "different". But when my hubby went back to work on January 2nd - I realized that our little family Christmas had been...great. And over these last few years the things that were once new and different have become our Christmas traditions. These are the things that my kid will associate with Christmas. And while I sometimes do wish that it was still the way it was for me as a kid - my son will treasure his memories in the way I treasure the DIFFERENT memories of MY childhood.
How does this relate to the Disney/Universal thing? I'm sure you can see it coming...
As I mentioned in a previous post, I grew up in the nightclub business - we didn't get away much because if my dad wasn't working, he wasn't being paid - but we went to WDW three times during my childhood. Stayed at the Contemporary once, the Golf Resort twice. For all of us (but especially for my dad, who had to swim in some pretty nasty stuff every night at work) going to Disney was a TOTAL ESCAPE from real life. At WDW everyone was polite and respectful - the air was full of tempting smells - wonderful music (all different) drifted out from around every corner - and on and on....not to mention the unique rides/attractions - with ORIGINAL music (Imagination (Dreamfinder) and Horizons were my favorites). My dad (long gone to Glory) would bring his little tape recorder and just wander around recording this and that...he loved it. And I LOVE these memories. How things were then, for MY family, in this place we adored. This is what Disney did so well - the ESCAPE is what created "the bubble" that everyone talks about. Disney always seemed to be S-T-R-E-T-C-H-I-N-G what an amusement park could be. Who would greenlight Horizons today?
Last year, I took my son to WDW for the first time. I wanted those feelings again, this time with my husband and kid. To me, it seemed like that ESCAPE wasn't as evident. The extras that provided that feeling (lots of live music, CMs who all seemed to go above and beyond, can't find anything like it anywhere else attractions)...not so much. We still had a great time and with one exception (a NASTY Chinese CM at Beach Club check-in) OK CM interaction. But I wanted more. If the extras are gone, then surely there should be more/bigger/better attractions. Right? No.
It seemed like most things are now about REINFORCING the bubble (this means you, DINING PLAN! and wristbands and on and on) so guests are forced to make decisions based MORE on dollars and not on desire.
I have been to Universal twice (stayed off property 1st visit, at Royal Pacific 2nd). I loved the rides - LOVED, LOVED, LOVED what was essentially a FOTL pass (slow season) and Man! IOA has some gorgeous architecture. But RP felt like a convention hotel (which, to be fair, it is - but, still, no soul) and the CMs seemed like ones that couldn't get on at WDW. Theme park JV, if you will. Photographers who pushed you to pose for pictures, ride operators who were jobsworths...And of course, I had no memories of enjoying Uni with my much-beloved father to blur the outlines. Still had fun, but my brother and I agreed (2007) - NOT AS GOOD AS DISNEY.
2013 - Uni still has the best bubble feature of all (the ride pass) but now they are also jamming their parks with new stuff available to ALL GUESTS. Rides! I LOVE rides, and I am EXTREMELY keen to try Harry Potter (and Portofino!) so next year - now that my kid is tall enough for almost all the Uni rides - we are going for a Uni vacation (and a week on Sanibel - small one OBSESSED with seashells). Because I love my Disney memories, but my kid doesn't have them. He experienced a different Disney (it was still heaps of fun).
I know Portofino will be great (bro stayed there with SIL and was impressed, mightily) and am hoping (hope, hope) that the CMs are as improved as described by the Uni-lovers here. I am more than willing to let Uni be my new Christmas - or maybe Uni AND Disney will be it for us. But for this trip, I am voting with my feet. I vote for rides - for investments I can see and hear (and ride...wink). Jam the bubble with GREAT STUFF so that I want to stay. Don't just make it painful for me to leave.
I can visit Olivander's with my kid - we can fight crime with Spiderman. We can't bond over RFID.
A thousand apologies that this is so long. I CHERISH my WDW memories. I want Disney to get that! I think we may only understand what is really happening NOW when our kids decide where to take THEIR kids on holiday...