My thought is that people are talking about this like it is owed to them. If anything is owed it would be free parking for resort guests like it used to be instead of thinking that people need to pay for something that was never intended to be a paid parking experience. I understand it for offsite guest, but for people paying $600.00+ a night for a 3 star room should be getting that courtesy at least. The idea that anyone would not go there because they had to carry their own luggage is the epitome of first world problem. We are either grossly lazy or seriously entitled.
Expectations on what is expected (or "owed" if you will) are on a spectrum.
I agree with what you said above (bolded), and I simply expand it to include the DME.
I do not like using the word "entitled" as a pejorative for things one actually pays for!
To put it another way, entitlement is not inherently a negative thing. You pay for something, you are entitled to get it, guilt free.
The DME was never free. Anyone with a decent education knows this. It is something we paid for. Because we paid for it, we were entitled to it. Entitled in a guilt free sense. Now, using Disney magic of a different sort, that portion of what you paid for in the past disappeared. Oh, the price is still there, but the highly valued service that we all paid for and are entitled to, is gone. But, again, for emphasis, the price is still there.
It is like the TGI Fridays meal for 4 deal. You get 4 entrees, 4 drinks, 4 sides, and 4 deserts for $39.99. You get this deal for years and it is part of why you are a loyal customer. One day you go in, and the deal changed to 4 entrees, 4 drinks, and 4 sides for $49.99 and the deserts are no longer included. Am I entitled because this ruffles my feathers? Now, do note that if the price went up, and the deserts remained, I would be ok with it. I get that prices go up. But cutting the deserts while simultaneously raising prices just seems like an intentional F U to me the loyal customer.
Sorta like car dealer markups. Those feel very dirty to me and I would not only never buy a marked up car, but I would never use a dealership again that pulled that stunt. Its smarmy. I know, I know, we are not entitled to pay sticker price on a car. But still smarmy.
Same with Disney.
Because the price is still there for the DME, and in fact has gone up, I do not think this is a situation of lazy or the negative connotation on entitlement. I think it is more along the lines of a simple Disney, don't be smarmy.