But if I skip vacation - I don't owe. If I don't like vacation 'A' offerings, I'm free to chose vacation 'B'. The point was you are helpless to tell Disney 'I do not like what you are offering, and will speak with my wallet'. You can defer slightly, but you are not free to change course and show Disney you aren't happy with the offering.
We bought into DVC several years ago with the understanding that Disney is where we wanted to spend our vacation dollar. We are not "helpless", since we knew that prices were going to go up every year. Just a fact of business life.
We are both Disney nuts, and are more than willing to pay the increased costs for tickets, food, etc. Since the AP prices for us only went up $6 this year, I consider that a win! We go multiple times per year, and the AP (with TIW) is really worth it. Of course, this discount can go away at any time, but even if it does, we'll still go. The extra $149 is still a lot less for us than the multi-day park tickets.
If the prices have gone up too much for you, then I applaud your decision to vacation elsewhere. It just doesn't work for us.