I'm single again *sob*

[maelstrom]

My boyfriend of 2 and a half years and I broke up yesterday. I can't say it was totally unexpected, but for it to actually happen was a huge blow. I feel horrible. I've been crying almost non-stop. Everybody's been telling me it's for the best. But I don't see it that way. I don't even know how to be me without Tony. It's been Kristen and Tony for so long that I don't know how to deal with this. I keep hoping that it's just a nightmare and I'm going to wake up and everything is going to be fine.

 

[MerHearted]

It'll be ok. Your heart will heal in time. *hugs*

 

[cymbaldiva]

Things really will be okay.... I promise!

It'll just take time -

 

[Maria]

Aawwee... I am very sorry... but if you say it was expected, maybe it is for the best.

"If you love something, set it free, if it comes back it was yours, if it doesn´t, it never was." (or something like that... I translated it from my Spanish version of it). :animwink:

:kiss:

 

[mkepcotmgmak]

i know you are tired of hearing this - but it IS for a reason... just always remember that - if it is meant to be - it will be... until then... i hope you feel better about the situation real soon - go out and do something to take your mind of of it!

 

[Tink18]

Malestrom, I know exactly how you feel, I dated my ex for 2 1/2 years as well, and we actually broke up the ady after our anniversary.........<now that was rough> this was jsut recently around labor day time, so if you need to talk I can usually give some rather inspirational advice even though I know things look horrible now, and that they aren't going to get better, but let me tell you nothing is ever really as bad as it seems. Here is my AOL S/N Tink1885 and my e-mail lindxzz@msn.com in case you wanna talk!!!!! I'm so sorry to hear this : (

 

[tigsmom]

Wish I could say something to make the hurt go away...I do know one thing, its his loss.

 

[tiggerlover1971]

Originally posted by tigsmom
Wish I could say something to make the hurt go away...I do know one thing, its his loss.

wow tigsmom you and I were thinking the same thing !!! Definately his loss not yours

 

[Erika]

I'm sorry, Kristen. It's never easy, is it? My grandma used to say "Time heals all wounds" and I used to get so mad...but...she was right. The hard part is getting there. For now, treat yourself to a girls' night out. Take care.

 

[WDWFREAK53]

Hey Kristen,

I'm in your boat...things do get better...trust me! I dated my ex for 2 years and it was the hardest blow to me. But really, you're gonna find someone that's right for you...obviously he wasn't and you yourself know that because you said that it wasn't totally unexpected. You'll know when the right one comes along...you just will, I can't explain it...but you will.

If you ever need/want to talk...either PM me or IM me.

(AIM: WDWFREAK53) (very tough )

keep your chin up chica...you'll get through it...it'll take time, but you will :wave:

 

[DarkImage4]

Originally posted by Maria
"If you love something, set it free, if it comes back it was yours, if it doesn´t, it never was." (or something like that... I translated it from my Spanish version of it). :animwink:

:kiss:

I always thought it was...

"If you love someone, set them free, if they don't come back, hunt them down and shoot them..."

Nah...maybe you were right Maria....

Seriously, in the great scheme of things this is a great loss for him, and a little hurdle for you. Once you are past this tough period, you'll wonder who that guy was.

He apparently was NOT the right guy, someone is out there, someone who is perfect for you, and that you are perfect for.

Trust me, after many failed attempts, I found her, and I'm never letting go.

The best part is, he's looking for you too!

As stated earlier, were all here for you.....

 

[maelstrom]

Wow guys, I didn't expect this many people to reply. -cry- I love you guys! Maria, that quote is right, but I am fond of DarkImage4's version as well!

If anyone knows a guy who LOVES Disney, uses Apple computers, likes Italian food, would rather stay home and watch a movie than go clubbing, and wants to live in Florida -- SEND HIM MY WAY!! (in the 17-25 age bracket of course, lol)

I feel a bit better today, but I'm sure that something is going to trigger tears eventually. It still doesn't feel real that it's over.

 

[WDWFREAK53]

Originally posted by maelstrom
Wow guys, I didn't expect this many people to reply. -cry- I love you guys! Maria, that quote is right, but I am fond of DarkImage4's version as well!

If anyone knows a guy who LOVES Disney, uses Apple computers, likes Italian food, would rather stay home and watch a movie than go clubbing, and wants to live in Florida -- SEND HIM MY WAY!! (in the 17-25 age bracket of course, lol)

I feel a bit better today, but I'm sure that something is going to trigger tears eventually. It still doesn't feel real that it's over.

:zipit: I don't know ANYONE like that :lookaroun :zipit:

(see, I don't use APPLES )

 

[disney_nutter]

As someon who is always getting dumped i will give you a wee piece of advice i was once given my late mom, the one who will make you cry is not the one for you. Now i dont no if thats true but hey we can only hope and always remember in the words of monty python

ALWAYS LOOK ON THE BRIGHT SIDE OF LIFE

 

[SpongeScott]

Originally posted by maelstrom
I feel a bit better today

There is your key. Give your emotions a chance to settle down and you'll look at this differently. Time does heal all wounds and a good, positive attitude doesn't hurt either. Keep your chin up and your spirits high and tomorrow will be even better.

 

[Maria]

Originally posted by WDWFREAK53
:zipit: I don't know ANYONE like that :lookaroun :zipit:

(see, I don't use APPLES )

I knew you would be the first one to reply to her! :lol: (I was going to refer you anyway) :animwink:

See "maelstrom"? Just teach him how to use Apple!

 

[maelstrom]

Originally posted by Maria
I knew you would be the first one to reply to her! :lol: (I was going to refer you anyway) :animwink:

See "maelstrom"? Just teach him how to use Apple!

Did I mention that the guy'd have to be able to tolerate my Gordon Lightfoot obsession and my habit of listening to the Space Mountain Wedway Tunnel music on repeat, for hours?

Apple computers are like 50 times easier to use than Windows computers. I'm a recent switcher.

 

[garyhoov]

Originally posted by maelstrom
Gordon Lightfoot obsession

Let me say one more time:









(watch yourself with this one Brian, those Gordon Lightfoot fans are a sick, twisted lot)














Just kidding Maelstrom, I'm sure you're a fine, upstanding young woman who rarely listens to the voices coming from her refrigerator.

(redrum, redrum)

 

[KevinPage]

>>If anyone knows a guy who LOVES Disney, uses Apple computers<<

I had an Apple II C as a kid, no Coomadore 64 for me!!!!!!

>>likes Italian food<<

That's all I cook, Italian grandparents-hardcore!

>>would rather stay home and watch a movie than go clubbing<<

Clubs are for wimps who can dance!!!!! (and listen to lame music)

>>and wants to live in Florida<<

I live there already

>>-- SEND HIM MY WAY!!<<

I think the wife would have a problem with that!!!!

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

 

[Maria]

LOL Kevin! Although in this year and age, be thankful that your wife would have a problem with that! :lookaroun

Who is Gordon Lightfoot?? :veryconfu
Tomorrowland Wedway all day? Do you live in a "hut in Mars"? :lol: (Changing rooms/Trading Spaces joke, for those who follow the UK version -lol) :animwink: