Here's what I am doing. My last trip was with my then girlfriend now wife in 2013. We are going again in 2017....except she doesn't know about it. I started saving money, and I put it in the Disney Vacation Account (yes I know some are not fans, but it helps me) and not only do I watch it get closer to the goal price there, but I have an app that called GoTrakIt, where you set a goal and it fills the bar up as you get closer to your goal (in this case, the funds needed). I listen to Disney music, and I also have been planning like crazy, even though I know that 95% of what I am planning will probably not be the final plan. I have also decided to make it fun for my wife when she finds out by having a scavenger hunt that I am planning for her to do on our anniversary. So it's a bunch of little details that I am trying to work out right now, but it at least helps me stay focused on the big goal at hand.