There are so many awesome suggestions and insights. I didn't keep up with them after the crazy semester started but I'm reading and re-reading them now. I'm relieved that I'm not the only one who feels like the magic is fading, and excited that people have found creative ways to keep it alive, and that others have never lost it.
Part of me feels that maybe at my family's age, we're just over all of the rides already. I'm not particularly drawn to the parades, either. My parents just like to sit and people-watch now. I guess this is all OK. It's strange how that's happened, though.
Maybe all we need are some of these new experiences. I've been to Disney practically every month of the year and I do think fall is my favorite time, full of races, hay rides, Halloween parties and decorations, nice weather, and food festivals. We usually do some resort-hopping each trip, and last time, we also explored Winter Park, Sand Lake, Hunter's Creek, and the rest of the Orlando area. It would be neat to do a Wild Africa Trek and other tours, visit Universal and I-Drive, enjoy the fireworks at the new plaza, drink around the World, lounge-hop, swim, explore Disney Springs and Pandora, ride old favorites... I'm the only one of my friends and family who seems to enjoy running (Ironically, I'm the only flat-footed one too); that might have to be a solo trip.
I do feel like we need to space out our trips more, especially given all of this construction, and I feel like it would be pretty exciting to take someone for the first time! I feel like part of the magic fades when your party members just isn't as interested or into the experience as they used to be...it's like a lame party. Maybe I need to bring new people. I love seeing the young at heart reinvigorated! I heard in my hometown about a veteran with PTSD who recently fell in love with the place and had a ton of fun the week after we left.
Our daughter keeps it fresh for us. We do a family Disney challenge around one park. We have teams, grandma and grandpa, our daughter plus one boy, her hubby plus one boy. We all start at the entrance to a park, go in at the same time. Split into teams....have a given time to be back, usually 2 or 3 hours. The challenges can be varied...one year we had of lists of tasks...like how many flags are outside of Liberty Square, take a picture (with permission , of a cast member), ride small world , eat a cupcake, find a special hidden mickey...you get the idea...we get prizes at the end....first place, might get to choose dinner. Second place dessert and so on. She spends many months planning this challenge. No one knows what the new challenge will be each year, so for us, and the rest of the family it's always fun and exciting on challenge day.
This is so cool. I love the inter-generational camaraderie and game participation! I'm not sure if I could get my family into this but I would be! It certainly requires a lot of planning. If I have to do it solo, I guess I can always try that Gumball Rally that the MiceChat group holds each year. It also sounds like you give everyone time to relax.
Approaching my ninth trip this time, this is the first occasion I'm going with the same party of people. I've been with my family of four on every occasion, but we've only been as a party of four once, and we all agreed that was our worst trip (even though it was still fun!) But sharing the experience with different people has opened all of our eyes to different things.
This time we're taking my GF for her second trip, she was so overawed by it the first time she remembers very little. Still, to freshen things up we are doing a lot of half days at the parks and going to explore some of the hotels etc...
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I love that you all agreed it was your worst trip! Sometimes I feel that way after the fact, but I never say it, especially after all of the money that was spent. It's exciting that you're taking your GF, though! I think she won't be able to help but fall in love with it. Good call on the hotel-hopping. We started that a few years ago and I think it brought a new dimension to the vacation. My family fell in love with the hotels (although we could never afford to stay there), which house some of their favorite restaurants today. They are our standbys, and we enjoy walking around them. I kind of wish we could spend more time there, though; I don't always feel quite ready to leave when everyone else does. Plus, I need to check out all the details and renovations!