Oh man, that is a tough one. I absolutely love Wilderness Lodge and Beach Club is great too. Since you haven't stayed at WL, I'd pick that one for the trip. It's not as convenient to get to the parks as BC is, but it just has such a great atmosphere that can make up for that.
I think it's coming down to that - atmosphere. I LOOOOVE Beach/Yacht, but I feel like we need a big injection of the "Disney feel" next trip. Last trip wasn't the greatest and while we loved Gran Destino, the entire resort just felt...not the same.
Our trips aren't as park heavy anymore, so I think we'd really enjoy hanging around the resort at Wilderness Lodge.
Or we're going on a Celebrity Cruise.
Thanks all!