Have You Heard? Magic Friends Are The Word

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k.hunter30

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It will be okay just find a night to reschedule the couple time. Maybe when you reschedule you will end up having more time to spend. .
We don't have another free weekend day until December 20... No joke. :rolleyes: Aye-yi-yi... And I'll probabl yhave to spend that Christmas shopping! Ha! :brick:


Haha tonight is our Thursday Wine Bar girls night. We all get together on Thursday nights and eat at this local restaurant http://www.winesonvine.net/ and have wine. It's fun.
Ooo! I'm jealous...



:lookaroun
 

k.hunter30

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OMG! You two are entirely too busy! Seriously!
:cry::cry::cry:
In complete seriousness... i just don't know what to do. Honestly, sometimes I just want to curl up into a ball and cry... It's just one thing after another. When and how did life get like this? And I have no clue how to stop it... there's so many things we HAVE to do. I HAVE to do the work things that are in the evenings and weekends. DH HAS to go to all those church meetings. We, pretty much, HAVE to spend "social" time with people from church... even though, it's not always a relaxed thing. We have a second job that I really feel we both have to keep. There's just so many obligations I feel like we HAVE to do...

Sorry to vent guys... I just don't know what to do... I usually keep it together. I have for the past several months...
 

nibblesandbits

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:cry::cry::cry:
In complete seriousness... i just don't know what to do. Honestly, sometimes I just want to curl up into a ball and cry... It's just one thing after another. When and how did life get like this? And I have no clue how to stop it... there's so many things we HAVE to do. I HAVE to do the work things that are in the evenings and weekends. DH HAS to go to all those church meetings. We, pretty much, HAVE to spend "social" time with people from church... even though, it's not always a relaxed thing. We have a second job that I really feel we both have to keep. There's just so many obligations I feel like we HAVE to do...

Sorry to vent guys... I just don't know what to do... I usually keep it together. I have for the past several months...
((Hugs))


It's ok...it just looks like all this is really catching up to you.

Anyway you can possibly squeeze some you and him time into that busy schedule at all?
 

DisneySam

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:cry::cry::cry:
In complete seriousness... i just don't know what to do. Honestly, sometimes I just want to curl up into a ball and cry... It's just one thing after another. When and how did life get like this? And I have no clue how to stop it... there's so many things we HAVE to do. I HAVE to do the work things that are in the evenings and weekends. DH HAS to go to all those church meetings. We, pretty much, HAVE to spend "social" time with people from church... even though, it's not always a relaxed thing. We have a second job that I really feel we both have to keep. There's just so many obligations I feel like we HAVE to do...

Sorry to vent guys... I just don't know what to do... I usually keep it together. I have for the past several months...

It's okay vent away. Sometimes that's all that helps when so much is going on. ((HUGS))
 

k.hunter30

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((Hugs))


It's ok...it just looks like all this is really catching up to you.

Anyway you can possibly squeeze some you and him time into that busy schedule at all?
That would mean canceling with other people... And maybe that's just what we have to do. I just hate letting people down. But it so hard with DH's position.

You know, in middle school I had ZERO friends. Literally, none. And I would always pray God would give me friends. Now, I have more than I know what to do with. LOL! I'm SO blessed in that area. We have, I'd say, at least 14 VERY close friends. And then a whole bunch others who (and, i don't want to sound full of ourselves or anything...) really want to spend time with "Pastor __DH__ and his wife." It's hard to balance all that with our own personal time without letting people down.

I guess it's one of those "be careful what you wish for" things...:rolleyes:
 

Dukeblue1016

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That would mean canceling with other people... And maybe that's just what we have to do. I just hate letting people down. But it so hard with DH's position.

You know, in middle school I had ZERO friends. Literally, none. And I would always pray God would give me friends. Now, I have more than I know what to do with. LOL! I'm SO blessed in that area. We have, I'd say, at least 14 VERY close friends. And then a whole bunch others who (and, i don't want to sound full of ourselves or anything...) really want to spend time with "Pastor __DH__ and his wife." It's hard to balance all that with our own personal time without letting people down.

I guess it's one of those "be careful what you wish for" things...:rolleyes:


Wow... sounds like you belong in the "Plastics"

:lookaroun


(awkward I made that reference...)
 

nibblesandbits

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That would mean canceling with other people... And maybe that's just what we have to do. I just hate letting people down. But it so hard with DH's position.

You know, in middle school I had ZERO friends. Literally, none. And I would always pray God would give me friends. Now, I have more than I know what to do with. LOL! I'm SO blessed in that area. We have, I'd say, at least 14 VERY close friends. And then a whole bunch others who (and, i don't want to sound full of ourselves or anything...) really want to spend time with "Pastor __DH__ and his wife." It's hard to balance all that with our own personal time without letting people down.

I guess it's one of those "be careful what you wish for" things...:rolleyes:
Well, I'm sure if you tell someone that you and your DH just need us time...and you need to cancel one night...they will understand.
 

DisneySam

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That would mean canceling with other people... And maybe that's just what we have to do. I just hate letting people down. But it so hard with DH's position.

You know, in middle school I had ZERO friends. Literally, none. And I would always pray God would give me friends. Now, I have more than I know what to do with. LOL! I'm SO blessed in that area. We have, I'd say, at least 14 VERY close friends. And then a whole bunch others who (and, i don't want to sound full of ourselves or anything...) really want to spend time with "Pastor __DH__ and his wife." It's hard to balance all that with our own personal time without letting people down.

I guess it's one of those "be careful what you wish for" things...:rolleyes:

^^I agree with Nibbs.

Even though it has made things super busy for you right now, that's so wonderful. That's something that my good friends (who were our Youth Group leaders) always said they had trouble with, finding a balance for everything.


Wow... sounds like you belong in the "Plastics"

:lookaroun


(awkward I made that reference...)

:rolleyes:
 

k.hunter30

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Wow... sounds like you belong in the "Plastics"

:lookaroun


(awkward I made that reference...)
Wow, Joe. THat really helps. You're such an awesome friend. I mean the supportive things Nibbs and Sammie were saying realy don't mean a thing at all... but comparing me to characters in a Lindsay Lohan movie... that's JUST what I needed.







:p

Well, I'm sure if you tell someone that you and your DH just need us time...and you need to cancel one night...they will understand.
:eek: Hope so.
 

k.hunter30

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So... a good friend of mine sent me an e-mail after I unloaded a few things on him.

"Stop trying to please everyone."

*sigh*

Yes, I think this is my problem. :(
 

nibblesandbits

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Wow, Joe. THat really helps. You're such an awesome friend. I mean the supportive things Nibbs and Sammie were saying realy don't mean a thing at all... but comparing me to characters in a Lindsay Lohan movie... that's JUST what I needed.







:p


:eek: Hope so.
:ROFLOL:

:rolleyes:
 

nibblesandbits

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So... a good friend of mine sent me an e-mail after I unloaded a few things on him.

"Stop trying to please everyone."

*sigh*

Yes, I think this is my problem. :(
That was essentially what I was trying to say.

If you canceled on somebody with the explaination I just gave you...they aren't a good friend to you if they can't understand that.
 
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