OK, but, almost none of us looks like we did 20 years ago and I have to wonder why that matters. She looked like that for a long time after she announced herself anyway. People still religiously watch Gone With The Wind or The Wizard of Oz or It's A Wonderful Life and the fact that it is almost staggering how much different all those people look now, hasn't lessened their effectiveness in the films. The idea that Ellen looks different, or Alex looks different of Jamie looks different. (Come to think of it the only one that still looks really close to back then is Bill Nye.) (Must be something scientific that he knows about but isn't sharing.)
That thing that I have the most problem with is the forced labeling. Ellen is a lesbian! Who gives a crap! You are a gay man! Am I supposed to care cause I don't. Be whatever you are. I personally am a member of the male portion of the human spectrum. There is nothing else that anyone else needs to be part of.