Girls/Women are confusing!!!

[MajinBuu]

My g/f was on my screen name (AOL/AIM) and almost everyone i talk to on AOL/AIM IMs her. Most were girls and automatically she suspects im CHEATING or that im planning on CHEATING!! I just talk to these ppl, I have no plans on meeting someone else. Then, tonight, she uses my sn, e-mails her pic to some guy and he sent his pic as well. I call her and ask about it and SHE GETS TICKED OFF (!!!!!!!!!!!) AT ME!!! WHAT THE H**L? What am I doing wrong or not doing enough of???

AAAAAAARRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :brick: :brick: :brick: :brick: :brick: :brick: :brick: :brick: :brick:

 

[The_CEO]

Originally posted by ken-oh-ki
My g/f was on my screen name (AOL/AIM) and almost everyone i talk to on AOL/AIM IMs her. Most were girls and automatically she suspects im CHEATING or that im planning on CHEATING!! I just talk to these ppl, I have no plans on meeting someone else. Then, tonight, she uses my sn, e-mails her pic to some guy and he sent his pic as well. I call her and ask about it and SHE GETS TICKED OFF (!!!!!!!!!!!) AT ME!!! WHAT THE H**L? What am I doing wrong or not doing enough of???

AAAAAAARRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :brick: :brick: :brick: :brick: :brick: :brick: :brick: :brick: :brick:

AMEN! I know a girl and shes like that..

 

[PrincessAli]

well first off, she's a girl.....and sometimes girls worry. Have you told her all of that. Like you won't cheat on her and you love her, blah blah blah....all that crap that guys do actually works you know. I think if you are just honest with her things should be okay and if not....I really don't know what's going on....

 

[Maria]

Guilty!

An ex-bf got mad at me because I had posted my id (not a pic) on one of those dating sites just to see what happened and merely for fun with a friend of mine. It didn´t mean anything to me and when I showed him the pics of the guys who were looking for me (some of them looked like coming out of that website that Tramp checks, uglypeople.com), he gave me such a lecture! And it was all fun for me! Maybe the same thing happened with your gf! :animwink:

 

[MajinBuu]

Originally posted by PrincessAli
[B Have you told her all of that. Like you won't cheat on her and you love her, blah blah blah....all that crap that guys do actually works you know. I think if you are just honest with her things should be okay and if not....I really don't know what's going on.... [/B]

Believe me... I have been honest with her.. more than she thinks!!!

 

[MajinBuu]

Re: Guilty!

Originally posted by Maria
An ex-bf got mad at me because I had posted my id (not a pic) on one of those dating sites just to see what happened and merely for fun with a friend of mine. It didn´t mean anything to me and when I showed him the pics of the guys who were looking for me (some of them looked like coming out of that website that Tramp checks, uglypeople.com), he gave me such a lecture! And it was all fun for me! Maybe the same thing happened with your gf! :animwink:

....... I highly doubt it........

 

[Erika]

I used to date a guy who would accuse me of doing the exact things he did. A little bit of projection!

Not that your gf is doing anything, but what is with that pic and why did she get so defensive about it? Just seems a little odd.

Now practice with me: Yes, dear...smile, nod...I am sorry...you are right...you always are

 

[MajinBuu]

Originally posted by Erika
I used to date a guy who would accuse me of doing the exact things he did. A little bit of projection!

Not that your gf is doing anything, but what is with that pic and why did she get so defensive about it? Just seems a little odd.

Now practice with me: Yes, dear...smile, nod...I am sorry...you are right...you always are

Which pic are you talking about??

 

[NowInc]

And people wonder why i stay single...

 

[MajinBuu]

Originally posted by NowInc
And people wonder why i stay single...

And that helps me.. how?? LoL J/K

I still think your avatar looks like a goats head!! Don't ask..

 

[Fievel]

I actually gave messenger programs for awhile to prove to becky that I have no bad intentions with the people I talk to. Once she saw that I talk just to pass the time with everyone (mostly you guys), she was fine with it.

Maybe just explain the situation to her, and let her watch you talk or something. I think that if you let her use your sn, chances are that you aren't trying to hide anything

Any questions, feel free to find me on AIM. :king:

 

[MajinBuu]

Originally posted by Fievel
I actually gave messenger programs for awhile to prove to becky that I have no bad intentions with the people I talk to. Once she saw that I talk just to pass the time with everyone (mostly you guys), she was fine with it.

Maybe just explain the situation to her, and let her watch you talk or something. I think that if you let her use your sn, chances are that you aren't trying to hide anything

Any questions, feel free to find me on AIM. :king:

If her dad would let her over more often or actually let me come over, she could watch me on my sn.

 

[Tramp]

Originally posted by ken-oh-ki

What am I doing wrong or not doing enough of???

...you're sharing your screen name....that's the problem...you should each have your own screen name with a password, disable the auto log on, and respect each other's privacy...if ya gotta check on each other, chuck it all now cuz you're gonna make each other miserable...

...ah, have your girlfriend send me her pic and I'll tell you if you have anything to worry about...:lol:

...Dan's avatar looks like the Mercedes emblem.

 

[Maria]

If you don´t live together, why do you have to share the same screen name? I never knew my bf´s passwords and he never knew mine either! That could lead to a looot of misunderstandings! Avoid them!! :animwink:

 

[cymbaldiva]

Re: Re: Girls/Women are confusing!!!

Originally posted by Tramp


...you're sharing your screen name....that's the problem...you should each have your own screen name with a password, disable the auto log on, and respect each other's privacy...if ya gotta check on each other, chuck it all now cuz you're gonna make each other miserable...

Well said Tramp! IMHO (and I know from experience, trust me ) ya'll should really get your own screen names and just trust each other.

 

[cymbaldiva]

Sorry Maria, I should have been agreeing with you too - I responded to Tramp's post w/o reading any farther! You are totally right as well!

 

[Maria]

Originally posted by cymbaldiva
Sorry Maria, I should have been agreeing with you too - I responded to Tramp's post w/o reading any farther! You are totally right as well!

no problem! We all agree! :animwink:

 

[cymbaldiva]

Glad we're cool ....you were quite right!

 

[Tramp]

Originally posted by cymbaldiva
Glad we're cool ....you were quite right!

yeah...you ladies are cool daddio!

...something that comes with experience, (or is it age), is that certain things in a relationship are required to be classified on a 'need to know' basis....it's not being dishonest or mistrusting.....there is too much that can be misunderstood, misconstrued or misinterpreted...AND if seemingly understood at the moment, will undoubtedly be thrown in your face during the very next argument...:lol:

 

[Maria]

Originally posted by Tramp


AND if seemingly understood at the moment, will undoubtedly be thrown in your face during the very next argument...:lol:

Ooohh... you bet!! :fork:
:animwink: