We should probably close this thread- theres no point to argue anymore. Whats done is done and at the end of the day we can't bring back this child's life. Its terrible and its bringing out the worst of us and I wish I could take back a lot of the thing's I've said.
Yeah I agree. I said a lot of mean stuff about the parents because I was really angry and didn't know who should be held accountable. In my mind, as I was getting information, it sounded like the parents allowed their kid to play in the dark murky water at night. I really think that's why a lot of people were upset at them and passed judgement so quickly. To us, we already knew about the dangerous animals of Florida that lurk in the water at night, but then as people on the thread started to give possible explanations as to why the parents did what they did, then my mind started to open up a little and suddenly there was a lot of gray area. I wasn't really angry at the parents. I was mad because a two year old kid lost his life so soon...
Until the parents or their representative officially come out with a statement, we will never truly know
why this happened. After 80 pages of everyone's opinions, all that we have done, including myself, was assume. Whether you were in defense of the parents or against them, everyone who had an opinion about this tragedy based it on assumptions (except the details provided by eyewitnesses).
I say this because we really don't know if signs that said "Beware - alligators in water" would have saved anyone because we don't know if the parents even saw the signs to begin with (or do we?). We don't know if a fence or wall could have prevented this since we can't read people's minds and know if they (or alligators) would climb over them or not. We don't know if they were oblivious to danger or if they knowingly took a risk and ignored the signs. We don't know how THEY even interpreted the no swimming signs if they saw them. We don't know.
Lastly, I still think it's important to find out who or what is responsible. People now might think "What for? It's not gonna help the kid," or, "Why blame anyone? It's no one's fault." Of course it's someone's fault, whether it was someone today or the park designers 45 years ago. Finding out why this happened is important unless you all want more tragedies like this to keep happening. And I am not going to accept some people's point of view that bad stuff just happens because they do. They happen for a reason, and having such a passive stance on issues like these is dangerous because it means that a person is not willing to figure out why something is happening, which then allows the problem to continue. Those reasons need to be dealt with in order to prevent more loss of life.
Was it the parent's bad judgement? Lack of video surveillance? Lack of cast members to enforce the rules? Movie night on the beach?Like I said in my earlier posts, we can't fix a problem unless we first find out what caused the problem to begin with. And
@The Mom and
@LAM378, putting blame or finding out who or what is responsible isn't always necessarily because others are thinking "It can't happen to me or my family" like they're in denial or something. I mean, I can't speak for anyone else, so that might be the case sometimes for a lot of people. From what I learned in the Marine Corps, when someone is being blamed for something, it's about finding out the truth, correcting the behavior, and figuring out preventative solutions to problems so that it doesn't happen again and cause a bigger mess. I guess it really depends on what the issue is about for what I described to matter.
But, like I said, we're all just assuming things whether you're for the parents or not until the parents come out and explain their side of the story. One thing that we can assume, though, is the pain that they're in. So out of respect, I, too, think we should probably just stop talking about this until more official announcements are made.