I had a talk with the "cheapskate", aka DH today about how we did not take vacation at all during 2020 (need I say more). Then this past summer we planned a nice 2+ week trip down hwy 101 from Oregon Coast to the Redwoods, Mt. Lassen Nat'l Park, Crater Lake, Bend, OR, and back home to Seattle in our trailer. The day after we left, my mom calls to tell me my brother committed suicide. So that was a bust. We thought we might do Christmas in Hawaii since no one wanted to be here with the recent death of my brother but it was too late to rent anything decent.
So my argument to him was we've not taken vacation for 2 years, this past summer was crap for all of us, Christmas (while nice in it's own way, wasn't what we really wanted as we were surrounded by memories), we've more than "saved" for this trip to stay "on property" again this trip. He agreed (finally), with the caveat we go later in the summer to try and get to go when GotG:CR opens this summer. Now we need to choose which DVC resort to rent points from.