First off, according to The Bible being gay is a sin. I don't really go by that or care because a lot of it is crazy and ridiculous but that's another story. But I see it where if people are going to be so strict with what is a sin or not and follow every word in the bible, then how can they also say it's ok to be gay. It's like people want to pick and choose with what they like and don't. It's either all or nothing. I am trying to be as nice about it as possible by not using slurs and mean names.
I am not offended by all gays. Most of them... yes. The ones that are like the annoying guy in Dharma and Greg I cannot stand. However the ones like Greg or the black gay guy on Real World are ok because they don't go around acting like they are. It gets REEEEEEEEEALLY annoying when they have to make little comments so we know they are gay. It is one thing when you are only around other gays or friends that except you are gay, but society on a whole doesn't approve of it since it isn't the norm or traditional. Look at the whole political thing with gay marriages. We don't have "Straight Day" or "Straight Pride" so why do they need to have Gay Day and Gay Pride... it's pretty much just screaming for attention. I am sure if there was a "Straight Day" that gays would lash out and be offended.
Part of the reason I am so homophobic has a lot to do with things that have happened to me with these people. Having my butt grabbed and getting hit on by multiple ones and it was just gross as heck. Now I actually know how women feel when guys do stuff like that.
I think if he is able to talk about his gayness and everyone can think that is ok, then I should be able to explain why I don't think it is ok and defend myself since everyone wants to look down upon me now. To me a majority of non-gays think it is gross and shouldn't be made public. Even the media won't show two guys kissing on television, when showing a man and a woman is no big deal so obviously I am not one of only a few that thinks it isn't right. If you are gay that is fine but do you really need to be proud of that? I am not proud I am straight, I'm not proud I have brown hair, I'm not proud I am 6'4", I'm not proud I am white. Get my point? Be proud of something that you actually have control over and not your sexuality. Pride and not being embarrassed are two seperate things. It's almost like people do it to stand out and get attention. It should be like religion, you can go around and preach about it as much as you want but don't be surprised when you P.O. people that don't agree and get tired of hearing it, so you should keep it to yourself.
Even though I don't think it is right, I don't get all bent out of shape or mad with some of the stuff people say to insult the way I feel or tell me I am wrong. We have different opinions. I'm not saying I am right, but I'm not saying the opposite side is right either. I don't even think being gay is totally wrong as long as you don't go around making your sexuality your personality. I am not judging them because their lifestyle is different. If I were I would hate everybody but white upper middle class americans, and that just isn't the case.
Ok, I said what I wanted to say to defend my views. I've heard y'alls so lets drop it. It's not like we are trying to change each others minds. Just wanted you to hear me out before you thought I was a total idiot. If you want you can continue to get all mad over what I say which contradicts the "just because it isn't what you believe doesn't make it wrong" philosophy. I'll take the high road and not let this continue regardless of how many people want to bash me for MY views.
