The Grand Californian is the only hotel at Disneyland that compares to Disney World resorts. It has a feeling very reminiscent of DAKL and DWL, but in a craftsman style. If I remember correctly is was designed by the same firm that did one of those resorts, I believe DAKL. The other bonus to this resort is that it has it's own "private" entrance into DCA. The lines are much shorter to get into DCA and that is kinda cool. The other great thing is that if you get a theme park view... wow just spectacular... and as said earlier ridiculously expensive.
The Disneyland Hotel I believe is the mid-priced hotel. Very dull and boring on the outside, nice on the inside. Again not very uniquely Disney, but nice. The Neverland pool is a lot of fun, and it is the second shortest from the parks, and there is the monorail out in front. When I was there I don't remember any great views of the theme parks but maybe there are some.
Disney's Paradise Pier Hotel is where I stay at... if I'm going to stay on property. It's the cheapest of the hotels, you can get a theme park view which has a lot of bang for the price of a parking lot view at the Grand Californian. The walk is a little longer, maybe 10-15 minutes to the parks, and when I stayed there they didn't have the monorail, that might have changed by now though.
If you are going for the Disney Experience and price is not an issue I would go GC, if price is I would stay PP with a theme park view. Now Disneyland doesn't have the same extra magic hours that Disney World does. I believe that they only do them a few times a week, and when I checked in on it you had to purchase your theme park tickets as part of a hotel package in order to get the EMH. Oh and they only do them in the morning, not at night. Sometimes the parks open at 8am, which means that the EMH is at 7am... which kinda puts a kibosh on everything since a lot of the time we didn't get out of the parks till 12:30 at night!
I would seriously consider staying at one of the offsite properties and walking to the parks. We stayed at the Best Western which was right behind ToonTown and it was maybe a 10-15 minute walk. And at the end of the night when our feet hurt so bad we would call a cab and it was like $5-7 for the trip home, which I thought was well worth it!