I think from your post history, and I could be wrong, is that you travel as a group of 2 adults? That could color your experience.
As the father of 3 kids, and having visited parks with them in tow now for 11 years consecutively, the experience stinks now. As in, we opted to not renew anything this year at all. Buying a ticket is really all the planning that should be required. Traveling as a party of 5, or more often, a party of 7 or more... really presents a challenge. **to be clear, we live within driving distance and are DVC members, I'm not talking about once in a blue moon type trips or novice travelers.
Our kids are no longer asking to go to WDW, they want to go to Universal or SeaWorld. A trip to WDW means you might not even get to ride a ride were looking forward to, or that the queue times meant less rides overall. That's the reality for MOST guests that aren't on this forum, planning, hacking, arriving pre-open, and furiously working the app, rope-dropping, racing back and forth across parks while staring at your phone... it just sucks now, sorry. In addition to the hassle, it has never seemed as crowded as it does now.
I've done all that. I've maximized the day. I've planned and prepped. But we aren't the majority. We are all a bunch of weirdos.
Universal makes it so easy. No reservations. Express pass requires no explanation, hoping for time slots, or any other malarky.