You and I are in the EXACT same boat. I'm 24 year old male, and to me, nothing is better than WDW. Now that I have a real job and have been working for about a year and a half, I find myself trying to plan several trips throughout the year. I was there in June 2010, and just had to go back a few weeks ago in January. AND I'm planning BOTH a June trip with some friends, and a quick trip over the weekend of the 40th Anniversary. My immediate family is somewhat supportive, though they encourage me to save money and not "waste" it on things like that....but none of my co-workers, friends or extended family really understand. They think it's ludacris that I would go so much.
I think most of the time, the problem with adults is that they don't experience Disney the way we do. To them, going to WDW means spending a ton of money on the kids, long, hot, sweaty days and lines for kid rides, and over-priced food and hotels. Especially for an adult who doesn't quite know how to "do" WDW the way we do!!
Same exact things happens to me with people asking "Why do you keep going?" I'm a music teacher at an elementary school, so of course we're always singing a few Disney songs here and there...but just the other day I was in the hallway and some of my students were eagerly asking me about my trip. The computers teacher overheard the conversation and said "Oh my god, Dan, you did not go AGAIN? Why!??!" I was embarassed, but the kids came to my defense, shouting about how great it was.
You took the words out of my mouth. Let me add Main Street Electrical Parade, walking down the middle of Main Street USA, and riding the monorail to your list. All worth the entire trip to me. And it will NEVER get old...I too was there in January, and I want to go back RIGHT NOW!!!
Are we meant to be best friends forever? Hahaha! You took the words right out of my mouth. I actually use a defense like this when people question my 13 trips to WDW. I say "Well, some people like to go to the beach every summer, some go to museums, some go to other countries. I go to Walt Disney World. I'm not bothering you by it, so why get worked up about it?" I don't much care for the beach at all, and I've been to Europe. I would like to travel to see the rest of the USA some time, but until I raise massive funds and travel partners for that, I'm more than happy to keep going to see Mickey and the gang.
This is actually pretty hilarious that you lie about where you've been. I can imagine how tough it can be with an elitist bunch, and I'm sorry that you have to keep it to yourself. I"m the same way with all of my co-workers here at school. I don't tell any of them, and I'm starting to not tell the students either because they tell everyone else, "Mr. Kitching is going to DISNEY AGAIN! COOOOL!"