I think there’s a difference between hiding something from children and waiting until they can understand it. I’d place talking about sexuality on the same level as talking about sex, we don’t ”hide” the concept of sex from children but we keep it very vague (birds and bees) until they can understand it, I think the same is true of sexuality, we keep it very vague (some boys like boys) until they can fully understand it.
Yes, that’s common sense; and no one is pushing for more than that.
When you show a heterosexual couple incidentally in an animated film, it requires no explanation.
Same sex couples are no different.
If you make no issue of it, there is no issue. No one is talking about sex, and no description of sex or mentioning sex is required to show that a gay couple exists or a gay person exists.
This was my argument against the law that started this whole fight with Disney. No sex talk is required to acknowledge gay persons. If some adults only define people by sex, that’s their problem to solve for themselves; but it’s that perspective that fuels the whole “hide your gay people” nonsense because they think “gay = sex.”
My husband and I will have been married 17 years come this September. Many gay couples have lasted far longer over the years, if not legally recognized. We’ve outlasted many heterosexual marriages in our families (some of which, handled badly, are clearly negatively affecting children.) There are many young children in our family, and no one hides us. We are an example to them of a solid, intact, respectful marriage. No one is confused. Nothing is awkward. There is nothing to hide. And my husband’s side are all Trump voters, including some who have served the State of Florida as Republican elected officials.
A drive by shot of a gay couple in a Disney animated film does us justice. It’s only a problem if you wish it to be. It shows current little 10-12 year-olds who are starting to wonder or realize something about themselves that it’s no big deal. That’s important. It’s more important than the people who still, after all these years, can’t grasp the basics on the subject.