Angel Ariel
Well-Known Member
Wow. This frightens me so much if my neighborhood were to go to something like that, especially if the schools stay closed longer which is looking more and more likely, and sports being canceled longer.
I worry about the effects on children that this will have. Especially kids who are very active and involved in a lot of extracurriculars and do not have other siblings close in age at home. They need interaction with other children. They are already upset over this absolute upheaval of their lives, and without that face-to-face human interaction I just worry so much about kids sinking in some kind of depression.
As of now, I would say the people who are letting their kids around other children are being very responsible. Like I said not large groups playing basketball or on trampolines or playing sports or tag, just pretty much limited to next-door neighbors in each others yards under strict rules, And then yesterday were 4 to 5 kids rode bikes and scooters for a little while. I know that did so much good for them even though it wasn’t their normal congregating together, The bike ride alone lifted my kid’s spirit so much, and I talked to a couple of other parents who did the same for theirs. I don’t know how many more people will decide to be afraid of that though.
I understand the concern re: emotional state. This is why I’m making sure we get outside to do physical activity together every day. As part of our daily routine in the morning we update her magnetic calendar, which has a place for feelings. A few months ago I printed off her augmentative device symbols for feelings and made them into magnets, so she had a wide range of emotions to use here. I use that now to check in with her daily. She’s had lots of big emotions - being afraid (or getting sick), sad, disappointed, confused, etc - checking in with her like this gives me an opportunity to answer questions I wouldn’t otherwise know she had and reassure her as I can. She is a pretty resilient kid (she hasn’t had much of a choice there), and I feel we are setting a good foundation to keep her emotionally healthy no matter how long this goes.
(for those that don’t know, as we’ve talked about it before in the political forum, my daughter has apraxia of speech and uses an augmentative communication device to speak).