I've learned the hard way that just because that was the way I did things that it doesn't mean it's going to be the same for everyone else. One of the first things I tell people, it that planning a Disney vacation can be hard work. I will help you plan, but know that in most cases you cannot plan a trip to Disney World just two weeks in advance and realistically expect to get all the fastpasses, dining reservations, and hotel you want. Do research and then come ask me what hotel would be best and at what time of the year.Tell me if you're okay with getting up early, or if you want to stick to a schedule or if you know you'll get sidetracked immediately. I try to give them the consequences of their actions, like if they don't want to get there at rope drop, then lines will be longer and more crowded as the day goes on. Like wise, if they're eating breakfast at their hotel then try to do so before 8-9 AM or it can get hectic. I try to convey to them that Disney can be very fun, but it is not the most relaxing place to plan for.