I'm afraid we've strayed badly off topic here, but here goes.
My fave are the Epcot resorts (Boardwalk, BC & YC) because of the walking/boat access to Epcot (my fav) and MGM. There's nothing like a brisk 5 min. walk from your room to the Off Kilter stage. You feel very much like an "insider" here. When Epcot is closing & the crowds are streaming toward the exits, you are dilly-dallying over a cocktail at the Rose & Crown & casually strolling through the International Gateway to you room in minutes. The evening/night life on the Boardwalk is great, fantasic restaurants & bars, beautiful rooms. Very casual, not snobby, great pools! It's like a little world unto it's self.
My other pick is the ALK, for exactly the opposite reasons. It's in the extreme SW corner of the WDW property, near nothing but the AK. You can't even walk to the AK from there. But, the atmosphere makes you feel like you are far, far away from the world as we know it. Their dedicated bus system makes it all very easy though. No stops, no sharing with other resorts and they come every few minutes. The 3 restaurants are primo, the pool is dreamy, It's a "Calgon, take me away" place. Also, casual, no pretense.
I only go to WDW with adults, my DH or for girls weekend. We like the quieter, more adult atmosphere of these 2 resort areas. Nothing against kids at all.
I hope this helps convince you to go Deluxe!