Hey, I'll chime in too.
If I were you, I'd avoid the value resorts. They are great in their own right, but they stuffed to the bring, overflowing with kids. Very loud kids. That's a not a terrible thing.... it is Disney after all, but it does remove the relaxation factor of the resort itself (stayed at the AoA with my sister's family). I've stayed at POFQ and loved it. I thought the theming was great, and it's not huge, so no long walks at the end of the day. Stayed at Coronado Springs, and... meh. Not my thing. I was there for a conference, and not a vacation, however. I've done AKL, and LOVED it..... only issue is it's far from everything. But it is reasonably inexpensive for a Deluxe. I stayed one night in the Contemporary, just to say I did. Not really my thing. The monorail station IN the hotel is cool, but it felt.... bland to me. Don't really like the Disneyland Hotel either (at least, not for the price). Stayed in the Poly YEARS ago, and I did like it. Stayed in the Grand Floridian recently and I LOVED it. Really magical place for me. Feels like an extension of Main Street USA. But it is PRICEY. Still, I think I spoiled myself for anything else! Have not stayed at Winderness Lodge. It looks awesome, but the lack of monorail was a bummer for me. Yeah, I really like the convenience of the monorail.