I live in one of the biggest cities in America and I'm young...doesn't make me narrow minded. Maybe you just haven't seen everything I've seen or we take the data we have and process it differently?
I'm not sure how anyone can argue against America having opportunities other countries fundamentally lack. I simply don't feel sorry for people who have those opportunities and many times quite literally refused to take advantage of them. The second richest man in American consistently states the luckiest person in the world is the baby being born right now in America. He's right.
I mean, you've got a guy here arguing that prepackaged goods are cheaper than fresh food. Can you make this stuff up? People are so ill-informed that they'll call me out for being ill-informed on a topic that is irrefutable. He's literally arguing that a $4 box of cookies or $4 bag of chips is a "better" deal than 4 pounds of grapes or 2 gallons of milk, or 2 dozen eggs or 4 loaves of bread? Tomatoes are $1/lb not even on sale. Bananas are $0.40/lb. Food is so cheap if you know what to buy.
I can make an entire meal for 8 people for under $10, but a bag of chips, cookies, and a 6 pack of coke is easily over $10. Not to mention, the prepacked foods are horrible for you and cause health issues far greater than any perceived cost savings.
FWIW, I think a lot of what you're saying is true, and a lot of other people here probably agree with it as well. The first comment just came off rude, I don't think you meant it to sound the way it did.
There are poor people who do want (and are trying to get) a better life, there are also poor people who cheat the system and blow their money away on junk.
You then have middle class people who don't invest, don't plan, spend all of their money on frivolous things as well. On the flip side you have plenty of middle class people who do plan and save.
I don't think there is one blanket statement that can cover them all.
Where I agree with you, is that statistically, lower income people do tend to eat fast food..spend money on flashy items they shouldn't afford, etc etc., which definitely hurts them in the long run. That part is self inflicted. The sad thing is- it's probably a cycle and no one taught them any differently. So we can't really call them stupid, they're just ignorant. That's where outreach programs and mentoring should come into play...these programs benefit the people they are serving, and by extension, all Americans. They need help in the form of guidance, not just checks.
Then again, you have people in that same economic class who take a bus everyday to work, day in, day out, year after year. They may not take Disney vacations, but they make the best of what they have and are probably relatively happy. Maybe even more so than those of us who are always trying to reach that next goal, while our kids are at a sports practice, game, play, etc, and we're at work.
I agree 100% with the Warren Buffett comment.