Chef Mickey
Well-Known Member
You make it sound like you're some Yoda...you're 34. You're essentially me in the North East. I am smarter than I was 10 years ago too and I'll probably be still smarter in another 10, but my basic principles don't change much with more knowledge.I am 34 and live in Bergen County, NJ. So, a little more specific then your answer of "young and a big city".
Yes your age matters, the older you get, the more experiences you accrue, and the less likely you are to make a judgement based on theory. When I was 22, I was an absolutely insufferable moron. I had a lot of the exact same idealistic leanings that you seem to have. Life's experiences have disabused me of those ideals. Life is complicated. Sometimes ye olde bootstraps aren't enough to lift you into the upper middle class and above. Even though, "TRY HARDER" is a key to making your life better, sometimes it's not enough.
Eating healthy is MUCH harder then you are making it sound. Sure, we could all load up on Bananas and save a bundle, but how realistic is that? Where I live, Chicken breast runs about $7lb. Milk runs about $3.50 a gallon, Grapes are around $3lb. I eat healthy, and I know for a fact it's costing me more now, then it was when I was less scrupulous with my diet. Anyway, eating healthy isn't cheaper. At best, it's a wash.
ps. For what it's worth, my bootstraps, combined with my wife's bootstraps, coupled with some luck, were enough to pull us into a comfortable life.
If it's a "wash" to eat healthy, well might as well do that, right?
You have no idea waht I've been through and I don't know what you've been through. What I do know is almost 50% of Americans pay no income tax and the average CC debt is around $30k. Real unemployment is probably close to 30%. I see what I go through on a daily basis and feel perfectly equipped to criticize others in a general sense. Everyone has their own bag to carry around, but the averages speak to some truth. People can do better and many of them choose not to do so with many, many more tools than other more resourceful people in other less advantageous places in the world.